Using the phrase, "You may, when...", instead of, "NO!", gives a child hope and detours power struggles. This humorously written story shows families how to stop the arguing when kids are told, "NO!". Permit yourself to pause and gain clarity before answering a question. Our first instinct may be to respond from pure emotion and that isn't usually the answer we want to give. An emotional shouting match often begins when children ask for something...