You Didn't Hear It from Us: Two Bartenders Serve Women the Truth about Men, Making an Impression, and Getting What You Want

by Jason Kosmas and Dushan Zaric

Book Overview

Ever wonder how the great flirts do it? How they manage to attract a man's attention, even in the distracting setting of a crowded bar? And then, once they've got it, how they keep him focused? The... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0743293436
• ISBN13: 9780743293433
• Release Date: November 2006
• Publisher: Atria Books
• Length: 218 Pages
• Weight: 0.70 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.9" x 5.8" x 8.5"

Customer Reviews

Single women will LOVE this book!

This book has such great advice about grabbing a man's attention in a crowded bar or party setting. It gives you very specific tips on how to open the conversation and how to flirt in a way that really will hold his attention--the suggestions are so helpful, especially if you tend to get a little shy or intimidated by these situations. The authors also tell you how to read the subtle signals a guy is sending you that tell you more about his personality than he's actually saying, so the next morning you don't regret giving him your number (or taking him home)! I also really enjoyed all the funny stories from their customers that Jason and Dushan interspersed throughout the book. All in all, the book worked for me and I want to buy a copy for all of my friends--especially those who go home sad at the end of the night because they didn't hook up.

Great Insider Advice Served with a Twist

The most important message that bartenders Zaric and Kosmas give in their book is that it is truly all about attitude. Though the theory is often preached, it's a little harder to practice when you're standing in a dark, crowded bar where first impressions are served up as often as cocktails. I found reading this book was like talking to my best girlfriends, hearing advice from a good older brother, and getting insight from potential bar-mates all at once! I'm recommending it to everybody, especially now with Spring Break season approaching. Seeing Lauren reading it on The Hills only supported the reality that the authors so often find overlooked by their patrons; everyone feels a little uncomfortable and out of place in this hook-up/bunk-up/break-up world we often find ourselves in. However, with a little positive reinforcement, insider knowledge, and a ton of hilarious anecdotes, You Didn't Hear It From Us will definitely have you smiling all the way to the bar and back!

the boys hooked us up!!

What a great read......its clear these two gentlemen have heard and seen it all. Buy the book and visit Employees Only (the establishment they own in the west village) and you have a killer combination . The advise to hook the man you want and the venue perfect for a date with devine food and cocktails. Why am i such a fan?? i met my man at Employees Only over a year ago so had to buy the book for sentimental reasons and everything i read made a hell of alot of sense!! GREAT XMAS GIFT FOR YOUR GIRLFRIENDS TOO!! Thanks boys for taking care of the ladiesx

I'll drink to that!!!!

Even for a married woman with three children this book offered the golden rule to all women "Be yourself!" Besides, LOVE the drink receipes!

Good Info

In the never-ending battle of the sexes, it's always a good idea to enter the arena with as much information about your opponent as possible. This book gives advice to women on what to do to get men. As a guy, it helps to know what things women are looking for and how to interpret the signals they are sending. Trust me on this one, the more information you have the better equipped you are to play the game. Reading this book is like spring training. It's not the majors, but it gets you ready for the real thing. Reading this book hasn't made me any better looking but it has made me smarter and that definitely translates into more success with the opposite sex. I'd really like to thank Dushan and Jason for giving us guys more amunition for the battle. I know that guys aren't the intended audience, but I think they will get as much out of it as women will. And it's a refreshing change from the usual garbage that's directed towards women like "He's just not that into you", which just makes us all look like jerks.