I know that a lot of you read the title and asked yourself the question, "What does she mean I'm worried about the wrong shit?" The first time someone ever said that to me I was floored. Like, what do you mean? I asked a question that I wanted an answer to. Why didn't he just answer the question I asked instead of trying to tell me what to do? It took me about 24-48 hours to process what happened and why it happened but when I did, I realized the...