After I had written a list of things I had learned over the first 16 months of widowhood I read it again and decided it would make the basis for a book on the first year of my life as a widow.I was widowed on the 20th of December 2010 at 6am. My husband breathed his last breath in our home and in that moment life, as I had known it for 27 years had ceased to exist and the 25 years of care giving suddenly stopped. At that point in time, like most widows,...