Chapter OneWho Can I Blame?You can blame anybody you want to, actually, but you're probably lying.Are you shaped by nature or by nurture? It doesn't matter, because you control neither of them. However, you can choose how to react to them. That's how you get past fatalistic victim thinking and start living in earnest. Inertia may be (or seem) easier, but it's never as satisfying.Whatever it is, own it. If you don't own it, you can't change it.Here's...