True Coming of Age: A Dynamic Process That Leads to Emotional Well-Being, Spiritual Growth, and Meaningful Relationships

by John T. Chirban

Book Overview

RECONNECT WITH THE PERSON YOU'RE MEANT TO BEA four-step process that opens the door to a meaningful life...Life's authentic moments provide the groundwork for connection to ourselves, others, and God,... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0071426817
• ISBN13: 9780071426817
• Release Date: April 2004
• Publisher: McGraw-Hill Companies
• Length: 268 Pages
• Weight: 1.05 lbs.
• Dimensions: 1.0" x 5.5" x 8.7"

Customer Reviews

True Coming of Age by Dr. John Chirban

What do Maya Angelou, Lucille Ball, Tom Hanks, Diane Sawyer and Jay Leno have in common? They have all provided exclusive personal insights during their interviews with Dr. John Chirban, which are incorporated in his "True Coming of Age." Not only were the interviews with these famous celebrities riveting and heart wrenching, but they provided a wonderful framework for the meaning of true coming of age and establishing our True Self. By using various exercises throughout the chapters to exemplify and illustrate the True Self in which we are all capable of achieving, this book proved to be an informative as well as interactive masterpiece. This might sound a bit surreal but after reading Dr. Chirban's True Coming of Age, I have a new outlook on life. I try to live each day to its fullest capacity and try to put minor stressors in the "back burner." This book has enabled me to feel a sense of inner peace which I had never allowed myself to experience before. This is a must read for everyone!

TRUE COMING OF AGE IS A GIFT FOR ALL SEASONS

True Coming of Age is so well written, it is reality in the making for any reader seeking insight into the self.  I found that here is a book so beautifully crafted that almost anyone can enjoy its healthy, gentle way of drawing us and encouraging us to reach for our goals and dreams.  Often, for many, a book may seem too challenging or even threatening.  But here, written as it is, we find understanding of any apprehensions we may have.  Dr. Chirban, a most gifted writer, is quickly recognized as not only being knowledgeable in psychology and theology, but most familiar with the fundamental quirks of the mind.  With certainty we realize that a steady, knowing hand wrote the words that compel and encourage improvement without stress.  Emotional maturity is attainable through insights gained throughout the book.  Strength of spirit is fostered by helping us shed fears, as well as our often long established "hang-ups."  The patience we learn allows us to improve our relationships.  Indeed, by personal improvement, we make the world a better place.     Early on, Dr. Chirban helps us understand aspects of our makeup often ignored, and successfully raises our desire to improve.  In so many ways he shows us how to question the self, assess the self and improve the self.  We begin to sense a wholesome process taking place as we read words that trigger so many insights.  Realizations do not often come easy, but here, plentiful as they are, we soon bask in the freedom they give us.  True Coming of Age is a gift, a present to give to our selves ... and surely, a wonderful gift of enlightenment to give to friends and to our loved ones.  

True Coming of Age

I've read it cover to cover twice after receiving it as a gift a few months ago, and regularly return to it. The chapters are insightful and interesting, but the exercises are what differentiate it from other books in might otherwise be lumped in with in the "Self-Help" section. Suffice to say it was just the thing to knock me off a personal plateau I had been stuck on for too long. If your relationship with the world could bear some scrutiny and improvement, you'll never forget this book.

True Coming Of Age, Find out just how True!

I have read the book three times and feel that Dr. Chirban delivers a true and fresh perspective on discovering exactly who we are. Simply stated; how do we uncover our shell to find out what drives us - why do we behave certain ways - what is the underlying motivation in how we choose our life's path. This "manual" is helping me search inside myself & dig deep to reveal my authentic roots. Dr. Chirban gave great illustrations through his interviews with high profile people and made their authenticity "real" for everyone. From the basics and complexities of love, to careers, sexuality, family dynamics and personal faith, Dr. Chirban leads you down the path of true fulfillment, coming from within yourself and reconnecting with your inner being, and hearing your true inner voice.

Find Fulfillment Here

The famous Jesuit priest Anthony De Mello once asked a group to examine the feelings aroused within them as they contemplated a rose or a sunset. He then asked them to contrast this feeling with what was aroused within them by the praise and recognition of man. In True Coming of Age, Dr. John Chirban confronts his readers with much the same question-except now it's a challenge, and the answer is in the form of a path that opens wider and wider as one reads on. In this book he shows us how to live a skillful life meaningfully in the quest of a true measure of fulfillment. Having occasionally ceased to understand what happiness even means, through the combined factors of status anxiety and ego pursuits, Dr. Chirban's book returned me to a very centered place. I was able to re-understand-and become much more comfortable---with choosing an authentic life as my measure for satisfaction. He teaches that personal growth cannot be "achieved" "defined" or "measured" in conventional ways, and he does so by deconstructing the bewildering distractions that keep us outside of our human center. Using examples from pop culture as well as his extensive training in theology and philosophy and psychology, Dr. Chirban's book is a recipe for reflection and understanding that will change your life if you let it.