"'Did you find her in a home for the elderly?' 'Poor thing, you'll have to be careful ' 'At your age, you make mountains out of molehills.' 'She's gone downhill a lot, that little lady.' 'Follow the treatment and be punctual.'"From the age of 70 onwards, women are no longer considered as singular individuals, but as "old ladies," all alike or more or less. They're fragile, easy to con or threaten. They are forgetful, bitter or cantankerous. At rare...