To My Dearest Friends

by Patricia Volk

Book Overview

From the critically acclaimed author of Stuffed: Adventures of a Restaurant Family comes a smart, generous novel about two New York City women, the bonds of friendship, and the power--and... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0307263606
• ISBN13: 9780307263605
• Release Date: April 2007
• Publisher: Knopf Publishing Group
• Length: 187 Pages
• Weight: 0.88 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.9" x 5.9" x 8.7"

Customer Reviews

Friendship by the Book

With great wit, Patricia Volk has captured the essence of female friendships in her new novel, To My Dearest Friends (Alfred A. Knopf, 2007). If you enjoy the humor of Woody Allen, read this book. After their best friend Roberta Bloom (Robbie) dies of breast cancer, two of her friends get to meet each other for the first time: Nanny Wunderlich (a psychotherapist turned Carnegie-Hill realtor) and Alice Vogel (owner of a upscale Madison Avenue resale shop). The two friends-of-a-friend have "zilch in common," living in two different worlds, albeit on the same island of Manhattan. The unlikely pair is thrown together when Robbie leaves instructions for her two best friends to jointly open her safe deposit box after her death. There, they meet and find a mysterious letter written to Robbie by a previously unknown-to-them lover. The two women wrestle with what, if anything, they should do with this secret. This storyline provides a vehicle to explore the personalities of the three women (Robbie, Nanny and Alice) as well as the depths of women's friendships. The author wryly describes the shared rituals of friendship: how our female friends are the people with whom we like to shop, laugh, and see movies---the ones we want to have at our side when we have mammograms and when we grow old. This is a provocative read that makes you laugh out loud and think about the legacy you might leave behind for your own female friends. The unexpected ending compels you to read the book again to make sure there is nothing you missed---and then to share it with your best friend to make sure you understood it.

Terrific new Volk

For those who've happily followed Patricia Volk's books, stories, articles over the years, this novel will be a treat because I think it's the best thing she's done. And if you aren't one of those people, this one can make a fan out of you. It's got the dancing, jiving prose and the echt-New York atmosphere of her last book, the memoir STUFFED, but now she's got a cast of characters she can get deeper into. And this one has a fascinating plot, a bit of a mystery in fact, that still leaves lots of room for ruminations on marriage, love, relationships, daughters, lovers, Manhattan apartments, and on and on. I've always thought Volk's wisdom about people and their doings, especially within families, was buried but still there and still revealing. Among a number of things, this book has to do with what it really means to know somebody whom you consider a best friend---which is not what we tend to think it means. And it also has to do with the presence of the dead among the living, also not always what we think. Meanwhile I'm not a New Yorker, have never eaten at Bergdorf's, am not even a woman, but I find the sense of place and personality in this book to be compelling and strangely familiar. Since it happens to be the beginning of summer I'll call this a truly great summer read.

While it's not the BEST novel I've read,,,

"Friends" is a curiously interesting and highly satisfying read. The characters and the story stayed with me after I'd finished. I'd love to hear an audio-version of the book. I hope one is issued. After reading "Friends", I read Volk's family memoir, "Stuffed". Her non-fiction is as good as her fiction writing.

A frothy read? Yes. But don't be fooled. This is one meaty novel.

Patricia Volk comes from a family notable for its creativity. Her great-grandfather brought pastrami to America. Another relative invented the Six-Colored Retractable Pen and Pencil set. And she's descended from the first man to stir scallions into cream cheese. Forget Volk's stellar career in advertising, her journalism and her other books. Just on the strength of this novel, Patricia Volk is more relevant to today's American culture than a pastrami on rye. How can that be? On the surface, "To My Dearest Friends" is nothing more than a breezy, chatty, 187-pager about three privileged Manhattan women. One is recently dead. One is the 62-year-old owner of a consignment shop for gently worn designer clothes. And one is a 59-year-old former therapist now selling real estate. You can imagine the dialogue: kvetch, kvetch, kvetch. And you'd be so wrong. For one thing, "To My Dearest Friends" has an irresistible premise: Two weeks after Roberta "Bobbi" Bloom dies, her lawyer calls her two best friends, Alice Vogel and Nanny Wunderlich, to his office. Why? Because Bobbi has given them keys to a safety deposit box. And the lawyer now has a letter for them from Bobbi: Dearest Nanny and Alice, Dear Dearest Friends in No Particular Order, Please go now to the Chase on Fifty-eighth and Madison. Open the box together. You'll know what to do. Love you to pieces. Alice and Nanny --- who have nothing in common but their friendship with the deceased --- go to the bank. In the box, they find another letter. A love letter. To Bobbie. Undated. Unsigned. With no further instructions. "You'll know what to do." Hardly. Obviously, Alice and Nanny can't agree what to do next. But in the course of not agreeing, they have reasons to get together. And we get two treats along the way: wonderfully sharp dialogue and observations, and a quick but deep look into the lives of two New York women. Some random samples: Why Bergdorf's moved its restaurant from the 5th floor to the basement: "Guess how many salads you have to sell to equal one pair of Kors stilettos." The new definition of rich: "someone who could afford their apartment now." Therapist wisdom: "A man abused by his father is always waiting to be injured. Especially by the person supposed to love him. Injury is what he knows. That's what love is to him." As Nanny and Alice bumble through the search for the letter writer, we learn a great deal about the Upper East Side of Manhattan. I live a block away from one of these characters, I have watched every change in this neighborhood described in these pages, and I can attest: Volk got it exactly right. I can't speak to Volk's accuracy about the way women like these view marriage. But I can say that I hoovered --- a verb Volk invented in her advertising days --- this book in an evening. How does it turn out? With a fantastic surprise. Or so I think. But maybe not. There's some ambiguity at the end --- and don't worry if you weaken and skip there to find ou

Warm, delightful, uplifting - a great gift for your own dear friends

Patricia Volk is known to fans in New York and readers of "O", Oprah's magazine, for her unendingly honest and funny books and articles. I remember the first one I read - many years ago - about having thick, curly hair. Patricia is a joy to read as she's extraordinarily perceptive and endearing. I've given this gift to friends and recommend others do the same. Like much of her work, it explores a piece of New York as well as relationships, in this case, what do you do with information you didn't ask for and don't want. We've all been burdened by the secrets of friends, grappling with what to do about them. What's expected, what's helpful, etc.