For nearly 20 years I have worked on the front lines of death and dying. I have saved countless lives and I have pulled the plug on numerous others. In experiencing family members over the years, in most cases they can come to terms with the fact that their spouse or parent is dying. But what they never get over, what they anguish over, is making decisions for their loved one. On too many occasions to count, a teary eyed son or daughter turns to me...