Tired of Trying to Measure Up

by Jeff VanVonderen

Book Overview

Written to point the way to freedom for Christians who live under an unwritten religious code of expectations and rules that drain them of spiritual strength. This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1556610300
• ISBN13: 9781556610301
• Release Date: January 1990
• Publisher: Bethany House Publishers
• Length: 171 Pages
• Weight: 0.53 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.5" x 5.4" x 8.4"

Customer Reviews

always need reminding

I've been a Christian 47 years. Praise God for the reminder that eternal life is all about Jesus and His followers' position in Him. Thank you, Jesus!

Discovering God's Love and Grace

This book will help to set you free from legalism and the shame of rejection by other people. Jeff Vanvondren clearly explains the reason for shame, using examples from his own life experience. I highly recommend this book. It should be read by anyone struggling with religion, God, rejection, shame, or any kind of dysfunctional background. It is especially helpful to those who have been mistreated in a church or religous setting. This book is timely, relevent, and offers practical solutions. Due to the nature of the subject matter, this book is not light reading. Instead, it is worthwhile, thought provoking, and will prove to offer lasting help to those who read it. More than mere inspiration, and even more than compassionate encouragement, this book is truly life-changing.

Deals Powerfully With Shame

This book deals powerfully with the shame and pain that can be experienced in, and caused by, relationships. It helps the reader to see when s/he is not the source or cause of shame (feeling inadequate and defective), and provides insight as to why many shaming messages are unfounded. This, therefore, eliminated the pain caused by shame. I had to read this book cover to cover twice over to get as much as I did out of it, and originally thought it a five star book. Not, I would honestly give it 20 stars out of 5. VERY helpful.