THE FIRST LADY ...it sounds so dignified, doesn t it? I mean, the respect, the notoriety and all the perks that go along with the position. Everyone knows who you are! But, do you? Or have you been overshadowed by the pressures of perfection and buried by the strain of obligation? Have the cares and the weight of the coveted position robbed you of your first love... first lady? Whether you are married to a Preacher, a successful business mogul or...