The Pain of a Fatherless Son

By Khothatso Matthew Rakabaele

This book contains Four Chapters1. The Pain2. Tools That Leads To The Pain3. Dealing With The Pain.4. Letter To The Youth.THE PAINThis chapter is intended to open the eyes of all irresponsible fathers out there to the pain they are causing to their kids by not playing their roles. Research have shown that if fathers play their roles in kids' lives they become the central emotional well-being of their kids. They are supposed to be the mentors and guiders for their kids but what happens if they are not around?The general message in this chapter is "it takes nature to be a male, but guts and responsibility to be a father, time have come for you to take responsibility for your actions, stop the generational curse you are placing on innocent kids."TOOLS THAT LEAD TO THE PAINThere Are some tools that lead to the pain, it does not just come from nowhere. This chapter reveals 15 tools that lead to the pain.DEALING WITH THE PAINFor as much as there are tools that lead to the pain, there are tools to deal with the pain and do away with it.Are you in pain, or have challenges in life? Then this chapter will work for you. This chapter outlines 9 ways in which you can deal with the pain. For example, BE A THINKER, but be careful of the type of thinker you become because as Apostle Okose Emmanuel says, there are 5 types of thinkers.1. Vanity Thinkers.2. Unstable Thinkers.3. Demonized Thinkers.4. Money Thinkers.5. Positive Thinkers.LETTER TO THE YOUTH.Due to the pain, the youth have been seeking comfort in all wrong places. They've been engaging in all nonproductive things they'll regret in future.This letter is intended to convey a message to them that the road to success is filled with pain, discouragement, and disappointment. They need not to give up when they meet them in life but rather keep pushing and believe one day they'll see the light. Being fatherless doesn't mean they are futureless but they must believe one day they'll make it. They should not believe in poverty but rather they must believe they are just broke because poverty is eternal whereas being broke is temporary.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1728650682
• ISBN13: 9781728650685
• Release Date: October 2018
• Publisher: Independently published
• Length: 142 Pages
• Weight: 0.54 lbs.
• Dimensions: 8.3" x 0.4" x 5.8"