The Marriage Bed

by Regina McBride

Book Overview

An exquisitely lush and lyrical story about marriage and motherhood, attachment and letting go set in early twentieth century Dublin.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 074325497X
• ISBN13: 9780743254977
• Release Date: May 2004
• Publisher: Touchstone Books
• Length: 289 Pages
• Weight: 0.88 lbs.
• Dimensions: 1.1" x 5.9" x 8.7"

Customer Reviews

4.5 An enchanting blend of myth and marriage

McBride's female protagonists are exquisitely nuanced, their deepest longings and secret fears. They exist wholly-fleshed, surrounded by the turbulent beauty of the Irish coast. When orphaned Deirdre is delivered to the convent of Enfant de Marie by her grandmother, she is admonished to keep secret the true story of her parent's deaths, an incident Deirdre has pushed into her subconscious, burying emotions with memory. In that dank environment, with its shadowy candlelit corridors and prayerful murmurings, Deirdre is desperately unhappy, fourteen years old and far from anything familiar. Deirdre is fascinated by one of the other postulants, Bairbre McBreen, at Enfant de Marie to fulfill her family's obligations, an effort to appease a wrathful God after her mother leaves the convent to marry. In a blend of religious fervor and alchemic fate, the O'Breen's welcome their obligation to provide a son to the Church, an effort to repair past transgressions. Bairbre has come in lieu of her brother, Manus that he may marry and carry on the family line with sons of his own. This family forms their own Trinity, mother at the apex, as a lonely Deirdre imbues them with powers beyond their capacity. Hopelessly lost in her own imaginings of domestic harmony, Deirdre gravitates first to the ethereal Bairbre, another postulant, sensitive to each despairing sigh, "the sound of it cast a shadow like a bird that followed me along the corridor, then flew suddenly past". By marrying Manus, Deirdre enters into an unholy alliance, underestimating its power until her entire life is usurped by her mother-in-law's will, the marriage purged of its promising intimacy. Even the granddaughters are caught in the web, plucked from their mother's over-protective grasp. Only then does Deirdre accept her own complicity, hollow-eyed with grief at the loss of her daughters. In elegant, sweeping prose, Deirdre revisits the first days of her attraction to Manus, away from the penetrating gaze of Mrs. McBreen: "There was a dungeon in Manus's heart." Everything leads her back to the source of her fears, the tragedy she cannot speak of, her desperate flight from reality into the waiting arms of a woman who uses her as a pawn, as Great Blasket Island calls Deirdre home to reclaim the self she abandoned. After years of bending to the wishes of others, Deirdre embraces her own past and with it the chance to reclaim her children, her life and the love of her husband. This elegiac novel touches a woman's interior, plumbing her secrets, the mysteries of religious devotion shrouded in piety and the softly murmured prayers of supplicants who harbor selfish intentions. The phrases spill like pearls: "I felt as if my body were comprised of hundred of subtler bodies thin as veils, but concentrated, all ignited and brushing at each other." The McBreen mansion is of gothic proportions, lushly appointed rooms contrasting with dim, stone-walled corridors leading to an alchemist's retreat. And eve

Engrossing

This novel is set in early-20th century Dublin- the same kind of world that James Joyce wrote about in Dubliners. However, this contemporarily written novel contains nothing of the prose of the great master of Irish fiction. The story follows Deirdre O'Breen, a young woman who gives up the life of the convent to marry the brother of her best friend. In the process, she must give up her devotion to Bairbra in order to produce sons for the ecclesiastical O'Breen family- on in which a son or daughter in every generation is given over to the church to become a nun or priest. In time, Deirdre gives birth to two daughters- belligerent Maighread and calm Caitlin. Lurking over all is Mrs. O'Breen, Deirdre's sinister mother-in-law, who pushes her to bear sons and to send her daughters to boarding school. What follows is a quest for Deirdre to find out her role as a parent, eventually giving up her role as a mother to answer questions about her past that have long been plaguing her. Its a sad and dark tale, passionate and sensual. But somewhere, there is a glimmer of hope and happiness for Deirdre O'Breen. However, there are too many inconsistencies and glitches here. And, although it supposidly takes place in 1910, there's no feel of the time period; the characters seem as if they are modern and therefore also seem like cardboard. But it is an engrossing read nonetheless; I finished this novel in a day and a half.

Meditative and Captivating

I read this book in a single night--it is an amazing, deeply felt and keenly observed novel. Reading it was like a meditation--lines of the book reminded me that being a woman is about being multi-dimensional, prone to change, and vulnerable. Regina McBride writes about a young Irish girl--Diedre O'Breen. Diedre, orphaned early in her life, is taken to a convent by her grandmother after a mysterious death kills both her parents. As Diedre studies for her vows, she encounters a woman who will impact her life tremedously. The novel is set in Ireland in the early 1900s--like McBride's previous novels--The Nature of Water and Air and Land of Women--the reader will find the spirit of Ireland captivating and visually stunning--its people complex and fascinating. Diedre's past plays as much a part in her life as does the keen eyes and emotion of those she encounters--from the time she spends in the convent, to the second and third phase of her life--both as wife and mother. This book's spirit left me breathless and wishing the last page had never come.

Deep look at Ireland in the years just prior to WWI

Up until 1907, Dierdre O'Coigligh lived on the impoverish Great Blasket Island off the Irish Coast until she was fourteen when her parents died. She feared the sea and never crossed it until her grandmother left her with no choice. The teen orphan was dumped at the Enfant de Marie Convent on the mainland because her grandmother insisted that she was too old to raise a young lass.At the Convent, Dierdre meets wealthy novice Bairbre O'Breen, a widowed mother who is a key benefactor. Through Mrs. O'Breen, Deirdre meets Bairbre's brother Manus, an architecture student. He falls in love with Dierdre-and his mother feels she is acceptable as a daughter-in-law. Instead of becoming a nun, seventeen years old Deirdre agrees to marry Manus. After the ceremony, they move to a house in Dublin that his mother furnished. They have two delightful daughters, but Mrs. O'Breen demands a grandson who will be a priest regardless of how the lad or his parents feel because the matriarch has secret scandals that need heavenly intervention to remedy.THE MARRIAGE BED is a very lucid look at Ireland in the years just prior to World War One. The story line provides the reader with a picturesque glimpse at middle class life and the influence of family on members. Though the secrets seem minor and Mrs. O'Breen's demands seem easily shrugged off and ignored (maybe this reviewer is the anachronism as perhaps I am using a liberated twenty-first century lens), Regina McBride provides a colorful character study that makes 1910-1914 thriving as if the reader is in Dublin right before the Great War.Harriet Klausner