In the end will you or your hospital have control over your life? The Grievance: A Real Life-and-Death Story is a deeply moving personal memoir - much of it in riveting real time - of a husband's cautionary tale of the whirlwind of circumstances, decisions and emotions surrounding the death of his vibrant wife whom he knew and loved for more than 50 years. Just 40 days earlier, she was playing tennis and bridge and doing yoga - then she was gone...