The Gift of a Year: Ht Achieve Most Meaningful Satisfying Pleasurable Year Yourlife

by Mira Kirshenbaum

Book Overview

In this one-of-a-kind book, author and therapist Kirshenbaum shows women how to take their dreams off the back burner and make them a vital part of their lives. The Gift of a Year offers checklists, quizzes, and empowering stories as it helps busy women make their fantasies a reality.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0452282144
• ISBN13: 9780452282148
• Release Date: April 2001
• Publisher: Plume Books
• Length: 240 Pages
• Weight: 0.50 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.6" x 5.4" x 8.1"

Customer Reviews

This was a good book

This book was inspiring! I loved chapter 4!! Chapter 17 is a must read!! I also loved how she talked about having you in your life and that sometimes we get so busy with our lives and get so much stuff that we loose our true self and we no longer have a life.

Interesting read - and is well worth the money

Sometimes it just takes a year to regain one's self. I bought this book for my girlfriend who is taking a year off to "regroup" while just concentrating on HER ! I guess we all need a break. She says this book is wonderful.

This book should be called the Gift of Life

The Gift of a Year has given new meaning to my life. It is suitable for any woman, any age, because who hasn't asked themselves "What do I do next?" Ms. Kirschenbaum guided me to the answer - the one that was exactly right for me and I have no doubt she can do it for anyone at any time in their life. This year, I turned 50, closed a store I had in Michigan for 6 years, saw my son (age 19)go off to college at NYU and was helping my daughter (age 17) prepare for a summer internship in Marine Biology in Eleuthera, Bahamas, followed by a year abroad through FSU in Panama City, Panama. My babies flew the coop and for the first time ever, I had no plans in my life. I searched for all the empty nest syndrome books I could find, but not one of them seemed exactly right for me. I don't have that syndrome. I just didn't know what I wanted to do with the "second half" of my life. I had already had my career writing and editing for newspapers, raised the kids, worked at a bookstore before opening my own and now what? I always liked to create with arts,crafts, etc., but had no time to do it while running a store. Enter The Gift of a Year - approximately two chapters into this gem of a book, I decided...I was going to spend my year creating one thing every day. It might be artwork, an article of clothing, or simply cupcakes! In that instant my attitude changed and I became alive again. I bought a notebook in case I thought or heard of something profound that I wanted to save, I made a new salad recipe from the tomatoes in my backyard and then...I passed the book on to my friend who is in much the same situation. I insisted she take the time to read it, skim it and even offered to have her sit back and I would read it to her...she is that stressed. So, my eternal thanks to Ms. Kirchenbaum for giving me the insight to look forward to the next however many years I have and I now rise with gratitude for the next twenty-four hours I have upon me. Thank you Ms Kirschenbaum!

A Great Book

I loved this book and have read it over and over again. I think her idea of spending a year doing something you want to do is originally described in her book. What seemed novel to me was the idea of doing something as mundane as just taking a bubble bath every night. Some people might want to climb Mt. Everest, but most people wouldn't. She says some women might just want to rest! The Gift of a Year is just a great book to get you enthused about what you can do with your life in an easy, everyone can do it, sort of way. We need more of these types of books that talk about the possibilities that are out there, not just how to fix yourself. I highly recommend this book.

Life Changing & Uplifting

Mira Kirshenbaum spoke to the suffocating woman inside of me. I know she speaks to all women when she asks, "how does a part of yourself ever turn up missing in the first place?"This was a gift from my mother for my 25th birthday. As a wife, full-time working mother of a four year old and all around self-inflicted super woman, I had a "sense" that a small part of me (okay a huge part) was slowly drowning in that turbulent sea we call everyday life. I trusted & loved my mother enough that if she felt it was important to give this book to me - than perhaps I better read it. I couldn't have anticipated the amazing transformation my soul would undergo. Through reading this book I was given the tools to find a center again that was in me, rather than outside of myself. I have a renewed anticipation of the wonders my life has to offer me. I have now purchased four copies to give to my closests friends, including my mother. I truly feel that it is that crucial and rewarding for all women to read this book.If you THINK you need to regain your spirit at the start of this book you'll KNOW you need to by the end.Be prepared to have a few good crys and to have a weight lifted from your shoulders, namely the world. You really can breathe again and she'll show you how.

She is writing about my life!

This book is truly inspiring. I am ordering 3 more books to give as gifts to dear women friends who are all experiencing the same "emptiness" that has invaded my life. I seem to have it all: the degrees, the family, the relative financial security that the above all bring, but I have lost myself somewhere along the way. "Quiet desperation", but not knowing why. I have FOUND my answer by reading this book. It isn't magic, it isn't "hocus-pocus", it is identifying ME in my world, and taking a year to re-discover what makes me tick, what made me dream, what made me ME so many years ago. In the process, I'm already becoming a better mother, wife, friend, "employee" ... A MUST READ! Each woman inside herself has a spark, so many of us have let our other-self and other-roles smother that spark. No more. Give yourself the gift of this book, and then the gift of a year to regain that sparkle.