We're Only As Sick As Our Secrets For over twenty-five years I kept a secret that almost killed me. I suffered in shame and silence believing I had committed the unforgivable sin. What I didn't know is that 1.3 million women a year make the same choice I did, but many are still suffering in shame and silence. This is my journey.Come start your healing journey today. There is hope, healing, and wholeness available for you after abortion.