The Enneagram of Parenting: The 9 Types of Children and How to Raise Them Successfully

by Elizabeth Wagele

Book Overview

Elizabeth Wagele, coauthor of The Enneagram Made Easy and Are You My Type, Am I Yours, offers the first practical guidebook for parents -- packed with her delightful cartoons -- on how the Enneagram can help to understand and work with children's personality traits and behavioral patterns more effectively and creatively. Using her expertise in making the Enneagram accessible through simple text and zany, informative cartoons, Wagele shows parents...

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0062514555
• ISBN13: 9780062514554
• Release Date: January 1997
• Publisher: HarperOne
• Length: 180 Pages
• Weight: 0.60 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.5" x 7.3" x 9.2"

Customer Reviews

useful addition to your parenting toolkit

Another great enneagram book by Elizabeth Wagele, filled with witty, on-point cartoons and examples. For those familiar with the principles of the enneagram, this book provides useful guidance for determining type in children and applying the enneagram principles to parenting and other interactions with children. The book provides great kid-specific examples and "personality quiz" checklists for determining type in children. For each of the nine types, the book provides a brief discussion on how to approach ten common problems -- which include getting to school on time, study habits manners, getting along with others, sleeping & eating habits, standing up for themselves, decision-making, get up and go, emotional maturity, responsibility. The book also provides a brief description of enneagram types in parenting, though that is certainly not the focus of the book. Two things stand out in this book. First -- the fantastic and plentiful illustrations. I particularly like the cartoons that show all nine types in a single situation -- for example, in "The Enneagram of Embryos", the two embryo asserts his love for Mommy and Daddy and can't wait to meet them, the six wonders if they'll like babies, if his mattress will be too hard, if he will like the food, and the seven is begging to be let out -- as "I've got places to go and people to meet." In "The Enneagram of Nosebleeds", the one hopes the nosebleed doesn't interfere with his putting his toys away, the two enjoys the attention, the four imagines her own tragic death, and the 5 relishes the opportunity to examine human blood under a microscope. I also particularly like the type-specific suggestions for dealing with behavioral issues. The enneagram recognizes that not all children share the same concerns and are motivated in the same way about the book is the I wouldn't recommend this book as an introduction to the enneagram (Try The Enneagram Made Easy instead) or as a comprehensive parenting guide, but as one tool in your parenting toolbox or as an expansion of your understanding of the enneagram in adults, this is a great addition.

Kid personality = practical tips!

It's easy to pick out your child's type. The advice that follows is priceless!! Practical tips for dealing with common parent/child conflicts like eating, getting ready for school, doing homework... are demystified for each type of child.

Concise Yet Thorough and Thoroughly Engaging Reference Book

I am a psychiatrist, but all of us who are trying to be good parents tend to try to treat our children like we wish we had been treated: in my case I have a natural tendency to try to provide my children with as many stimulating opportunities as possible. But I am a 7 in the Enneagram system and my children are not! So it is a constant reminder for me that my little 9 daughter would rather cuddle than go to theme parks, while my little 8 daughter wants more and more action! Elizaeth has written a fabulous, concise, book reminding us of the interactions between parents of one type and children of another. A book that is both essential and ahead of its time.

It was an eye-opener to see kids from "their" point of view!

With great wit, humor and gentle humanness, Elizabeth invites us to explore the inner worlds of our children. If you have kids, know kids or teach kids, don't miss it! L.Forget