It's great to want to be number one at something, the good news is it's much simpler than most think; "not easier" just simpler when rightly understood. Question: What are you really good at? Answer: Being you, and that without challenging any status quo. You already qualify as a number one because you are the only one. You are unique in character, features, and possibility. All you have to do is decide to be the best version, the fullest...