The Booze Battle

by Maxwell and Ruth Maxwell

Book Overview

If you know an alcoholic, live with one, love one, or employ one, this important and innovative book can show you what you might be doing wrong--and what you could be doing right. Ruth Maxwell explains the problems you face and what must be done to bring the alcoholic to treatment and recovery.

• Format: Mass Market Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0345321545
• ISBN13: 9780345321541
• Release Date: October 1984
• Publisher: Ballantine Books
• Weight: 0.20 lbs.

Customer Reviews

PRACTICLE HELP FOR ANY DYSFUNTIONAL ADDICT

I HAVE COME BACK TO THIS BOOK SEVERAL TIMES OVER THE YEARS, AND OFFER IT TO FRIENDS WHO ARE FACING WHAT I FACED ALMOST TWO DECADES AGO WITH MY WIFE, HTE ADDICTED AND ME THE ENABLIER. THE SECTION ON PRIMITVIE DEFENSE SYSTEMS RELIEVES THE SANE AND LOGICAL PERSON, ( IE THE ENABLER (ME) WHO IS BEAT BY THE DISABLIER THE LOVED ONE YOU CAN'T REACH)11 OUT OF 10 TIMES ) WITH A CLEAR EXPLAINATION AS TO WHY ALL MY LOGIC, RATIONALITY, AND THREATENING NEVER MEANT ANYTHING INCHANGING HER, OR A DIFFERENCE UNTIL I UDERSTOOD JUST HOW ILL THE PERSON WAS WITH A COMPLETE AND PERFECT SYSTEM DEFENSE SYSTEM WITH RULES ONLY THE PERSON WHO NEEDS THE HELP LIVES BY. THIS BOOK IS NOT A CURE OR THE ANSWER. HOWEVER IT GAVE INTELLIGENT INSIGHT TO PEOPLE LIKE MYSELF, TO TAKE ACTION AND FIND A SOLUTION TO HELPING THE ADDICT OUT OF THE HOLE THEY ARE IN, AND KEEPING YOU AND I FROM FALLING IN AND BECOMING PART OF THEIR WORLD THAT ISN'T WORKING. ITS NOT THE "WORD" LOVE THAT MATTERS. ITS BEING ABLE TAKE THE POWER OF YOUR LOVE AND APPLY IT SUCCESSFULLY.

Informative

This is the first book I read about alcoholism, the dynamics, and how to approach it, especially as a family member or friend. It was informative and to the point. This is a handbook that can be used to actually face the disease and come to terms with it. Very valuable.

something that finally helped

this book was a lifesaver, i lent it to a friend and my dog chewed it up but i will not dis ard it until i replace it, and i am not in an alcoholic situation now-which attests to its strength. id like to say thanks to this book but god helped also. this book was a lifesaver and it helped to keep me on track , it wont make it easy, but it will remind you of the hard work you must do. and when you forget what you are doing or why it will agian remind you. i am now looking to replace my copy. it is a small book only 150 pages and can fit in a purse but well worth the money!! good guidance never gets old or outdated. please read this if you are looking for a way out, feel alone, don't know where to turn or need help and can no longer do what you are doing.

Very Helpful to people trying to help alcoholics

When I was doing alcoholism interventions in the eighties, I would buy this book by the case from Ballantine. It was a must read for family members and friends before we intervened to help the alcoholic. It is written for the lay person and is easy to read and understand. This book helps dispel the myth "You can't help an alcoholic unless he wants help". It also teaches the importance of having a professional orchestrate the intervention.