If "well" means to gratify and feel robust, and "being" means to live and exist, how will you live, exist, feel robust, or jovial if you're letting people who mean you no good make you feel useless? You can't exist if you feel the urge to not exist, you can't live if you feel the need to harm yourself, you can't be happy if you feel unhappy, and your health can't be good if you're constantly stressing. Let that sink in your brains for a moment...