"Brad was the best and the brightest: owned a successful business, had a beautiful wife and family, was in the prime of his life. But he gave himself a stroke, and died on my office floor. I'd like to make that the last one I witness." Joe Anderson, PhD. So that's where we'll begin. Being in charge is the most dangerous thing you will ever do. And it doesn't matter what, exactly, you're in charge of: church committee, home owner's association, marketing...