You don't have to feel bad about not contacting or coming around your mother. We live in a society that often puts people down when they are not getting along with their mothers, grandmothers and others who take on motherhood roles. They are told, "That is your mother, you should call her. Don't hold grudges you only have one grandma. If I were you I wouldn't let too much time go by without calling her, you never know when her time or yours might...