Divorced, childless, and jobless at 30.My younger self had it all planned. I would be married by 22-check. Have the dream job after university-check. And a couple of kids to go with the perfect wife.Scratch that.My wife left me for a guy ten years younger than me, and they're having the babies we should have had. The dream job became a dream when the company I worked for went belly up because of bad investments.So here I am, moving...