Pain and pleasure. Punishment and reward. Is that was BDSM is all about? It's a huge misunderstanding that BDSM is just about punishing the Sub. BDSM is much deeper than that. It's a safe sexual role-playing game on many different levels. The physical level is one, but there's more. What's so exciting about BDSM is that the Sub is involved in everything that's going on, if he or she is properly trained. If...