Still Single: Are You Making Yourself Unavailable When You Don't Want to Be?

by Casey Maxwell Clair and Casey Maxwell Clair

Book Overview

After ending a painful five-year affair, author Casey Clair came to the surprising realization that being married isn't the only way potential partners make themselves unavailable. In fact, men and women can be emotionally, legally, and sexually unavailable for happy, healthy relationships in dozens of ways. Casey Clair's new book, "Still Single: Are You Making Yourself Unavailable When You Don't Want to Be?," is filled with startling revelations...

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0312282362
• ISBN13: 9780312282363
• Release Date: April 2002
• Publisher: St. Martin's Press
• Length: 208 Pages
• Weight: 0.85 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.9" x 5.8" x 8.5"

Customer Reviews

Self aware

I read this and thought it was great!! It is basic knowledge, but to have somone else write it, it makes the knowledge seem real. Also, it made me realize I am not the only person in the world who has the problems as many other single 30 something year old women. It was fantastic to read.

Strong and Powerful

Experience is always the best and worst teacher. Fortunately, for readers, the author has compiled her knowledge and the experiences of others for us and plans it out very simply (even though it's hard!). If you are ready to change, you will be truly enlightened by this book. The points give you back ownership of what you have done and make you realize that you are not alone. And that you aren't stupid! Great book. I would highly recommend and have already. My favorite line in the book is paraphrased as the following: "If you are working on yourself and doing what you can for yourself, then you are loveable." And then she repeats it. It's very powerful for those of us who may not actually, consciously believe that. Read it!

Analyze This!

This is one gutsy book! Not for the squeamish or the emotionally unreflective. This is a rare instance where a book doesn't just answer questions, but asks you to question yourself. Very Insightful.

Best Advice I 've Ever Read

My neighbor gave me this book & I read it over the weekend. I was shocked that I was the reason I am still single. I was blaming all the "bad men" for my single marital status. The advice is good, thorough, and simple. You can change your patterns that will enable you to open up to meeting the people you really deserve to date. This book identifies the patterns, discusses ways to change and reinforces with examples. I am gifting this book to all my single friends!