Smart Women/Foolish Choices

by Connell Cowan, Melwyn Kinder, Melvyn Kinder

Book Overview

Smart Women Foolish Choices: Finding the Right Men, Avoiding the Wrong Ones This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Mass Market Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0451141490
• ISBN13: 9780451141491
• Release Date: January 1986
• Publisher: Signet Book
• Length: 283 Pages
• Weight: 0.40 lbs.

Customer Reviews

No more wrong men in this woman's life!

I went about my life wondering why men had such power over my life and emotions, despite the fact that I have many accomplishments under my belt and am a smart career woman. Until I read this book I did not realise that I had emotional needs I was expecting another person to meet. These needs overpowered my judgement when chosing the right guy. I also had misconceptions on what a good relationship was supposed to be like. I thought feeling anxious was normal. This book helped me figure out why I felt the way I did for many years, and now I have control of my life. As I read the book I felt lots of excitement, because I was discovering that things can be different, and this was the knowledge that would lead me to a happier life. I would really like to thank the authors for enlightening me, and for their empathetic tone. Examples on how to change would have been very helpful.

A great book!

Just a great book showing all of the choices women can make, why we sometimes make the wrong ones without realizing it, and to learn how to make better ones without sacrificing our dignity. The book gives great examples to learn from!

Smart Doctors Help Smart Women. 10 Stars!

Connell Cowan, Ph.D. is an outstanding psychologist who has co-written this book with Dr. Melvin Kinder to bring women awareness of self-sabotaging patterns, hidden dependency needs, how men respond to women in power, differentiating between "the nice guy" and the exciting men that cause misery for women, breaking old patterns that cause pain, getting in touch with illusions, letting go of expectations, and much more. This is a TIMELESS book that will help all women that are so adept in other areas of their lives become SMART with dignity, authenticity, and self respect, as you learn to honor yourself, as well as honor a relationship worth keeping, or leaving. I bought this book when it first came out. The pages are now golden yellow, and I recommend this book for the golden advice and practical wisdom that any smart woman can use if you have been in one painful relationship after another. A great book to re-read as you learn and grow in relationships. This is an outstanding book to help you honor yourself and uncover patterns that have caused you pain, while you learn how to bring out authenticity within yourself and the man you are with. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED! Barbara Rose, author of "Stop Being the String Along: A Relationship Guide to Being THE ONE" and 'If God Was Like Man' Editor of inspire! magazine

Men breaking it down about other men.........

This is a valuable book on how to gage erroneous, futile mechanisms and thought processes that keep women in hopeless mindsets and equally hopeless relationships. These two licensed professional counselors are men themselves, and their experience and professional knowledge bring much enlightenment to the mystery of men's behavior in relationships. I highly recommend this book to those who have been led to falsely believe that all men are commitment-phobic slugs and want validation to seek emotionally mature men that embrace confident, mature women for what they bring to the union. It offers tips on how ladies can come into their own power and to take assured chances with the opposite sex. Very concise, easy to read and well-written.

Informative for Both men and women

This book is very informative for both men and women. Explains well how to avoid disasterous relationships and seek healthy ones. A "must" to read for those seeking healthly long term relationships. Many facts and examples, easy to comprehend. Many things I did not know and had no clue about. Opened my eyes to reality!