Sister of My Heart

by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni

Book Overview

From the award-winning author of Mistress of Spices , the bestselling novel about the extraordinary bond between two women, and the family secrets and romantic jealousies that threaten to tear them apart. Anju is the daughter of an upper-caste Calcutta family of distinction. Her cousin Sudha is the daughter of the black sheep of that same family. Sudha is startlingly beautiful; Anju is not. Despite those differences, since the day on which the two...

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 038548951X
• ISBN13: 9780385489515
• Release Date: January 2000
• Publisher: Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group
• Length: 338 Pages
• Weight: 0.64 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.7" x 5.3" x 8.5"

Customer Reviews

A journey through life from the point of view of two sisters not bound by blood

I read this in one sitting, captivating and made me feel a sense of despair. Why a sense of despair, it is due to the harsh realities that the book conveys is definitively a reality for women in most Asian communities.

Very good read. I rarely read fiction but this one was well worth the read. It was very informative

I rarely read fiction but this one was well worth the read. It was very informative about aspects of life in India. The characters are well developed and multifaceted.

An inspirational story of two sisters...

Set in a world of harsh reality, Anju and Sudha Chaterjee, two women born as cousins who assume the roles of sisters, attempt to brighten their short-lived days with their imaginations. In Calcutta, India, where they live, the Chaterjees are known as an upper caste family, despite the shame of not having a male figure in their house. But even their high status doesn't hide their dwindling wealth and Anju and Sudha's mothers' desperate attempts at changing that. With personalities and minds as different as the sun and moon, Anju, the intelligent one, and Sudha, being beautiful, create stories of princesses, their princes, and hope. Hidden in these intricately twisted tales are their own sorrows of money, family, education and even jealousy. Chitra Divakaruni's purpose of this spellbinding tale is to show how even in the challenging parts of our lives, if we stay with those we love and remain hopeful, the time will pass, and the good times will come. But it is not a promise that there will only be a few hard times in life, because for every yin, there is a yang, meaning that everything is balance, and we are constantly being tested to see how well we can manage in the tricky game called life. Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni is an award winning author as well as a poet. With the publication of over 50 magazines, including The Atlantic Monthly and The New Yorker, she is a world renowned author. In fact, her books have been rewritten in sixteen different languages, including Hebrew, Russian, Japanese and Dutch. Being torn between two cultures herself, Divakaruni usually writes of the immigrant experiences of Indians when they come to America. Also, all of her main characters are women. She decided to write about women and their encounters in life as they come from conservative India to the land of the free, America. After leaving India, Divakaruni came to America and studied in Berkeley. Here was where she volunteered at a woman's battered home, at which her first interest in the topic of battered women arose. She then started a group organization called Maitri, which led to her first series of books which are stories of women faced with abusive marriages who confront them with new found courage. As time went on, she wrote various stories through different feminine points of view, which led to two of her most acclaimed novels, one of them being Sister of My Heart, which were made into feature films. Of all the detail put into this novel, Divakaruni has definitely achieved her goal of this story. Its points of conflict, confrontation, betrayal, secrets, and shocking surprises leave the reader gaping at the twists and turn of events. Not only is it an interesting book for pass time, but it is a great explanation of morality and its reasons. It cleverly explains the troughs of life and how everyone has their own way of jumping past them by explaining how two women, close enough to be sisters, change their lives in their o

Beautiful, lyrical tale

This beautifully written book is the story of two young women who are born on the same day, in the same home, to newly widowed mothers. The women are cousins, but grow up with a bond that makes them linked like sisters. The two have very different lives, as Anju, the witty and smart one, is truly a member of the Chaterjee family(a family of wealth and privilege), where as Sudha, the beautiful one, is a distant cousin. The story of how Sudha came to be, and who her father really is, is one of the many sub-stories that weaves its way into this intricately developed book.This book is about love, relationships, and about the fragility of life. It is also about things not always being what they seem. For Anju and Sudha are both forced to enter into arranged marriages. Poor Sudha's heart belongs to a man she met only once but was instantly drawn to, as he was to her. And the man she is led to marry answers none of her prayers. He is tied to his mother whom Sudha is never able to please. That story develops in ways I do not want to give away, but Sudha's character is one of strength and conviction. Anju is set with a man who she is instantly taken by, and at first he is taken by her, until he meets Sudha. He lives in America, and in time Anju leaves India to become an American wife as well. The complexities of the relationship between Anju and her husband Sunil are never quite revealed, leaving the reader to imagine what is truly going on. However, the tension is obvious, and Anju always remembers the way Sunil looked at her cousin with longing.Years pass and so do experiences, and Anju and Sudha do not share how they truly feel through letters or phone conversations until finally Anju truly needs her. Sudha's marriage does not quite go as planned, and he life takes unexpected twists and turns. As does Anju's. Ultimately leading them back into each other's arms and hearts. But can things ever be the same? This is basically where we are left, and then it is time to go on to the sequel!!! Fortunately I have it and cannot wait to dive into it. Ms. Divakaruni is an incredible writer who delves deep into the construct of human relationships and of the heart. This book is a treat, amazingly written and with a beautifully story of friendship and love.I highly recommend it.

Pure Reading Pleasure!

This book is an absolute pleasure to read...the writing is so lyrical you are transported to India, wearing a sari of gossamer cloth, hearing the tinkling of ankle bracelets, feeling the heat, smelling the spices, taking part in the day to day life of the five women who live in the Chatterjee household.Even tho' the scenario about the ruby mine was rather hokie, I loved the story of the two girls/women, Anju and Sudha and the close, unbreakable bond they share, unbroken by time, distance, and marriage. I especially liked that there were surprises...I was delighted to find them.Some books are like appetizers, some are like main courses, this one is dessert...savor it with a nice cup of tea and cake. It's scrumptious. Then recommend it to all your friends.Jesse

A book to be treasured always.

I am an avid reader and I must say that this book has taken over the number one spot of all times. It is the life story of two young girls born to the same household on the same day. Anju and Sudha are cousins growing up in a house full of women in the city of Calcutta, India. Their personalities, like night and day, bring us a blend of rich and exotic culture wrapped up in the ideas that society imposes upon them. The author entwines this richness with the silent sorrows and heavy heart of the unknown. A secret so dreadful that one of the girls can never shed light upon it without fear of losing everything that she holds dear. There were several unexpected surprises in this book. The author is a fantastic storyteller and I found such astonishing insight into the human heart I was moved to reread the book just to spend time writing down quotes which I found to be words one could live by. I have yet to meet the person who was disappointed by this book. 3/17/01

What a heartwarming, sweet story

I just finished this book of which one of my book clubs suggested that I read ~~ and it is really one of the best written books I have read in a long while. The author doesn't grab your attention by the horn, but slowly, softly does she tell her story between two cousins and the choices they have made with their lives. And she is excellent weaving two lives separated by different cultures and oceans. You can feel the hot air in India, being surrounded by jasmine and you can see New York through Indian eyes ~~ feeling the sense of freedom of being away from a different lifestyle.Anju and Sudha are unforgettable characters ~~ each so different in her way and both strong women. They grew up closer than twins for they were always together, and the stories they tell to each other are exiquiste. Then marriage and their choices regarding their marriages only kept them apart for a while ~~ after all, they are sisters of the heart and nothing can really keep them apart. It makes one wish that they had a close relationship like theirs in their lives. They are so fortunate and yet so unfortunate.I highly recommend this book. It is an easy read and the whispers that Divakaruni tells throughout the book isn't easily forgotten. This is the first book I've read by Divakaruni and she is an author I promise to read again. She makes you feel like you're sitting some place safe while someone you love most in this world is telling you secrets only for your ears. And that is the most delicious feeling ever to have in this lifetime. If an author can create that feeling with a book, then she is superbly talented.