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Paperback Single, Not Separate: How to Makethe Church Family Book

ISBN: 0884199290

ISBN13: 9780884199298

Single, Not Separate: How to Makethe Church Family

LOOKING AT SINGLES IN A WHOLE NEW WAY Do you battle feeling like an outsider in what seems to be a "couples" church? You are not alone--46 percent of the adult population in the United States is... This description may be from another edition of this product.

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Practical, supportive, realistic and hopeful look at the role of singles in the church.

I've now read this book three times (I rarely re-read any book)! As a 40 year old with two teens, I have resolved to remain single UNLESS it is God's plan for me to remarry and he brings someone into my life. Sadly, I have felt that older singles who choose to remain that way (at least for a time) have a difficult time finding a place to "belong" in the church. As the author states, most churches seem to be geared toward couples and as a single adult who does not feel comfortable in the typical "singles ministry" it can be difficult to connect with others in meaningful relationship. This book is not the typical cliche singles book that either tells you to cling to Jesus alone or to go out and find a spouse - the author affirms the realities of the heartache that many singles feel, gives practicle advice and paints a hopeful look at how the church could be if singles and married couples are willing to make a paradigm shift that would include all people regardless of their marital status. I highly recommend it!

Life Changing!

This book is important to singles and married alike! Are you married and have a sister or brother who is not, but desperately wants to be? Or do you have friends, who have watched you get married, have children, have those children grow, while they continue to pray for a mate? Or maybe you are a Pastor with many singles in your care. This book will show you how you can love them. I am married with several single friends, and this book was priceless in helping me understand their needs. And practically, it lets me know how I can help. The singles I know who have read this, want to buy it for all their married friends, as a way of saying, "Read this. This is how I feel!" Included in the book is a whole section meant specifically for singles, in how to deal with different situations they find themselves in - spiritually and emotionally, which I also found to be a helpful resource. Single Not Separate has changed my life and the life of those I love.

Review of Single, not Seperate

This book is a "must buy" for church leaders, singles (over 25, including never married, divorced, widow/widower, etc.), and married couples. I liked the book because it is written in a qualitative style (from experience) yet includes (look carefully) a quantitative style, e.g., "factors = problems," assumptions, and buzz words of "change agents." She deals well with pain issues that singles suffer, as well as underlying issues such as envy and jealousy-which keep singles and couples at bay. Ms. Virginia McInerney gives practical examples how to assist leaders, singles, and couples in building bridges-what she calls, making the church a family. She states that if the church's ministry is directed at married couples only, the church is missing nearly one-half its adult population.Although I do not agree with her comments on self-worth and self-esteem (pp. 88, 90, 141, 162), she brings out a strong `rational-emotive-therapy' (my words, not hers) approach later in the book for dealing with pain (see "power of choices, and "process," pp, 165, 166, 168). What Dr. Barbara DeAngelis has done for singles ("Are you the one for me?") in dating; Ms. Virginia McInerney will do for singles and couples in bridging misunderstandings. The book is based on a Biblical worldview model, and she draws good examples to bring a cultural change in the church for leaders, singles, and couples.Buy the book, read it, and implement these ideals!
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