Silencing the Phrase 'You Want What I Have': A Lesson in Empathy

by JAMES ADEYEMI

For those of us steadfastly pursuing a better life and dedicatedly striving for greatness, we understand that true achievement is rarely a solitary endeavor. The concept of leverage holds a pivotal place in our journey of growth. While the sought-after answers may not always reside within our immediate circle, delving into the deeper layers of connections-friends of friends-can often unearth the solutions we seek.
My narrative mirrors the experiences of all those earnestly working towards greatness: a journey marked by determination, authenticity, integrity, creative thinking, adaptability, the resilience to overcome setbacks, continuous learning, and the often misunderstood yet paramount quality of unwavering compassion. The foundation for my aspirations was laid by my parents Pastor (Dr.) and Mrs. Adeyemi], who supported me through my educational journey up to the university level at Obafemi Awolowo University. Their enduring encouragement and commitment to my growth remain an everlasting source of gratitude.
As I encountered individuals with a limited perspective, particularly in matters of materialism, behavior, finances, and focus, I found myself equipped to navigate these pitfalls that often lead to turmoil. These figures, once regarded as mentors, were susceptible to the pressures of conformity rather than the pursuit of understanding. In this role reversal, instead of learning from them, I found myself guiding them. My lessons were rooted in priorities, emphasizing a shift away from external distractions towards a genuine appreciation for the unique contributions of each individual we encounter. I advocated for celebrating diverse backgrounds, fostering positivity in the face of challenges, and nurturing an unrelenting pursuit of excellence.
Unless our paths never crossed, our interactions have inevitably left an imprint on one another, exchanging qualities that enrich our own lives. In the broader scope, I endeavored to unveil the concealed mindset of "You want what I have" and to impart the virtue of "Empathy."

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0CH28XM4V
• ISBN13: 9798859775927
• Release Date: August 2023
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 142 Pages
• Weight: 0.44 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.3" x 6.0" x 9.0"