Roses in December: Finding Strength Within Grief

by Marilyn Heaveilin and Marilyn Willett Heavilin

Book Overview

Used for years by individuals, grief counselors, and support groups, Roses in December has helped readers understand the grieving process, support family members, give insight into sibling grief, and... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0840769520
• ISBN13: 9780840769527
• Release Date: February 1987
• Publisher: Thomas Nelson Publishers
• Length: 134 Pages
• Weight: 0.35 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.5" x 5.2" x 8.0"

Customer Reviews

Help Through Grief

In August 1987, I went through what is medically referred to as a missed abortion...the miscarriage didn't complete, and thus I was left carrying a dead baby for another month until she was born. After her birth, I was in the Family Book Store and happened across this book. I promptly purchased it, took it home and read it at one sitting. In this book I learned that it is okay to be angry with God, to vent feelings of anger and frustration. There had been several books on the list given to me at the hospital, but nothing to compare to this book. I actually went back to the store and purchased a second copy which I gave to my doctor. Found out later that he too purchased several copies that he gave as gifts to some of his colleagues. Also he had this book added to the list of reading material given out by the hospital. Bacause of people like Marilyn who was willing to share her deepest feelings with the rest of the world, we have this very wonderful book. Grief is something that each of us handles in our own unique way, and this book is definitely a help in getting through the grieving process.

Healing

After losing our 11 month old son suddenly in 1999, I found this book to be very helpful in my healing process. It is really a wonderful guide for all those involved in the grief process. It really is a "must read" for clergy and leaders in the church.

Roses after the sudden horrible loss of our 17 year old son

We too experienced a sudden loss when our son was killed. As a man came through the line @ calling hours, he handed me this book, as I read it, it seemed as though I was reliving Marylin's life some 20 years later. My experiences were so paralell it was unbeliveable. This book has given me some peace,at a time when I thought peace would never come again. Our loss is still so overwhelming that sometimes it's hard to even breathe, but I think of Roses in December, and I know someday the grief won't be what directs my life. I just need to experience all of the roses.

Roses in December

This book was written by Marilyn Willett Heavilin. Suffering the loss of a child is hard for anyone to imagine. Marilyn and her husband Glen suffered the loss of not one child, but three of their children. Marilyn journaled the story of her strugles, grief, despair, hopes, and blessings. She has covered just about every topic I can think of. I have said all along that we didn't loose our son David for no reason. God wanted us to learn from it and wanted to make us better people. Well, I can see that is exactly what happened with the Heavilin Family. Their heartache would make anyone want to just stay in their house and never come out. But, with help of their friends, prayers, and eachother, Marilyn and Glen took what they learned from their tragedies and has devoted their lives to helping others who are greiving the loss of a child. If you only read one book during your grief process, this is the book you should buy. Lucy Buhlmann Orange County TCF

Healing and reassurance

My father died over ten years ago now, and when a friend suggested that I read this book, my first thought was, "how can anyone else possibly understand what I am feeling?" But I have never forgotten how much Marilyn Heavilin's book helped me. I thought my grief was making me feel things no one else had ever felt or thought, and of course this was not true. I understood my own feelings better after reading this book. It gave me hope and reassurance to know that things WILL get better and others can share the burden. I also learned how to do things to help my mother and siblings cope with the loss, too. Bless you, Marilyin Heavilin!