We've been raised by the "Red Pencil" punishment model in the classroom. This model continues to rule negatively in our daily lives. Parents also use this method in child rearing as do husbands and wives in their relationships, not to mention employers and even friends. The model of "I'll tell you what you do wrong, punish and correct you to be sure you do what's right," to prove our love and care, is not working in our current social system. The...