We each have a variety of experiences that we go through and it is the collection of these experiences that helps to shape our character ... who we are ... how we think ... and how we handle life. Basically, we become the sum of our experiences. There's no rhyme, nor reason why some of us experience some traumatic things such as rape or molestation. We certainly have no control over that. But the thing we can control is "how we deal with it". Many...