Written in the tone of a supportive and savvy friend who just happens to be a top sex expert, this invaluable guide explores- Redefining pleasure- why the quest for female orgasms is overhyped - and how to relax and truly enjoy sex, with or without them Discovering the female body's pleasure zones Communicating with a partner about what feels good (and what doesn't) Exercising and eating to improve your sex life Sex positions 101...and 201 A lifetime...