Outing Yourself

by Michelangelo Signorile

Book Overview

Coming out isn't easy--but with Signorile's 14-step program, it's a lot easier.No matter how much you prepare, coming out as gay or lesbian is a difficult, emotional process -- a process that will continue long after the words are spoken and the secret is out. There's no magic formula, but Outing Yourself by Michelangelo Signorile offers structure, guidance, and straightforward advice to all those who are struggling with their sexuality and unsure...

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0684826178
• ISBN13: 9780684826172
• Release Date: June 1996
• Publisher: Touchstone Books
• Length: 208 Pages
• Weight: 0.44 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.5" x 5.5" x 8.4"

Customer Reviews

Excellent book

I like the way this book deals with homophobia, with patience and understanding, instead of anger. I wish I'd had this book earlier, before coming out to some of my friends, I wouldn't have taken their rejection so personally.

Very helpful

This book is terrific, for anyone coming out, already out, or considering coming out in the near future. If you're already out, it shows you what you can still do, how to be sure your friends and family don't fall into that trap of ignoring that you're gay after you've told them, etc. If you're in the process, the next step is clearly enumerated for you. It will help you avoid mistakes, things you'd never think of, which will make it easier on you and your family/friends. And if you're planning on coming out, this book will give you hope, and a goal. It will help you to know when you are ready, and what to make sure you have as a security net. Outing Yourself is a much needed friend, always helpful, always personal and readable. I read it within three days of buying it, and I'm sure I'll refer back to it often.

Great Coming Out Help

I recently accepted to myself that yes, I am Gay. My family and most of my friends do not know about me being gay. Many of whom I already think they suspect me of being gay but do not say anything.I used to be confused about myself and thought that I am bi-sexual. But now I know that it is not the true me. Sure I like to be with girls and hangout but sexually I prefer to be with another man. That being said I will give my thoughts on this wonderful book.This is the first book that I bought about coming out. This book not only breaks down steps in how to come out but it gives real life examples from other people's coming out stories. The pace of the book is set at your pace. You continue through the chapters as you progress in your coming out.Not only does this book answer questions that you might have it also answers questions that your friends and family might have and how to deal with them. I can say this book is very helpful in understanding not only yourself, but your family, friends, and the gay community.This book is not only for you, but for everyone in your life. Though I am not out of the closet to those very close to me, I have made steps in coming out thanks to this book.I hope you enjoy this book as much as I have.

Gay? Read it. Straight? Give it!

When I began coming out, I ended up with two copies of this book--the first two people I came out to gave me copies of this book, and both were straight. If you are straight and someone gay comes out to you early on in their coming-out process and you want to show them that you support them--this is a great book to give. And if you are gay and want helpful, level-headed advice about how and when to come out--this is a great book to get before you begin. Some key things I hadn't realized in coming out that this book touches on, for instance, is that the order you come out to your straight friends matters. Who knew? It's chock full of little tidbits of things you probably never thought about--and viewpoints on things you probably have thought about. All in all, this should be the first title in your gay or lesbian library. I can't tell you how much it helped me.

"The" book to have when coming out!

If you are pondering coming out, this is the book to have. I have just begun this process, and this book has changed my life profoundly. I cannot recommend it highly enough, it's like having a wise and reassuring friend who you can come back to again and again. I refer to it every day.