Oedipus Road: Searching for a Father in a Mother's Fading Memory

by Tom Dodge

On March 30, 1992, Tom Dodge lost his stepfather and inherited the duty of caring for his mother, a woman he confesses he never got to know. Suddenly he was confronted with the extent to which she had... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0875651534
• ISBN13: 9780875651538
• Release Date: April 1996
• Publisher: Texas Christian University Press
• Length: 212 Pages
• Weight: 0.15 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.7" x 5.6" x 8.6"

Customer Reviews

I couldn't put this beautiful book down . . .

I had read Mr. Dodge's book of short essays and thoroughly loved it. I purchased this book at NorthLake College where I had the pleasure of hearing Mr. Dodge speak. My father died of colon cancer a year ago and spent a month in dementia at the end, and my mother has recently moved my 94 year old grandfather into her home. Due to these circumstances I could really appreciate Mr. Dodge's experiences dealing with his mother's situation - and understand the stress. But the beauty - and the mystery - of the story is his search for his father's identity. I kept turning pages because I couldn't wait to see what information he would discover - or extricate from his mother - next.

A Classical Mystery

Oedipus Road by Tom Dodge is wonderfully engaging. I think I read it in three sittings. Normally I don't find mysteries my cup of tea, but when they are about birth rather than death and occur on a spiritual-emotional plane rather than a physical one, the drama changes entirely; this tea is just the right cup and just the right flavor.The narrative's subtitle, "Searching for a Father in a Mother's Fading Memory," captures a basic irony of this tale with its classical allusions and provides the basis of its form. The author, stubbornly searching for his lost father in his mother's lost memory, begins each chapter with a candid recollection of his mother in her own voice -- setting the tone for her son who recalls his own childhood in parallels that oddly match his mother's memories on some level. However, Plato and Sophocles hover behind this story of small town life in Cleburne, Texas during the fifties with its insistence on knowledge, especially self-knowledge. In a sense, the author travels the long read that we all travel from the time we're old enough to question our identity. How can we make wise choices unless we know who we are? His mother, a victim of Alzheimer's disease, would seem to be little help on his path; however, the past is as vivid to her mind as the present is dim. Her lively language fairly vibrates off the page as she recalls her own childhood, evoking yet another generation, that of her beloved parents, in whose home the author is reared. We see life spanning generations, socially, politically, economically -- a history of the United States for three generations on a personal level.As the author outlines his struggles with his mother's mental deterioration and his search for his father, we get not only only a book of changing times but one of morals and mores also. Unlike Jocasta, the author's mother knew who his father was, but as he says of his mother and gradmother: while they could bear any tragedy, scandal was indefensible. And thus never mentioned, ever. Dodge says he was the scarlet letter his mother refused to wear. It's not a bitter story, however. Despite the author's pain and ever-present anxiety, he recalls the pleasure of his small-town doings with nostalgia, great fondness and affection. And always there to guide him, like the chorus in ancient Greek plays, were his grandparents, his aunt Bernice and his mother's husband, kind beacons along the way.Finally this mystery, aptly begun on Mother's Day, is solved, but it's a who-done-it until the very end. I was breathless by the end of one of the last chapters when the author has led the reader to believe that, if ever, it will be now, and his mother, like a character in a badly dubbed foreign movie, says the name for which so long he has searched. And oddly there is no blame. Because Dodge has allowed his mother to speak for herself, his story is her story too. Tragedy bequeaths itself only because it is i

The nostalgia of days past is symbolized in memory loss.

As Mr. Dodge reminds of the stars we used to play under in the long summer nights in small Texas towns, he teaches us about acceptance and loss. His mother has lost her memeory, freedom, home in the sadness of senility. This awareness is mirrored in the nostalgia of past times. There is a literal mystery as Dodge tries to find out about his father, as well as the spiritual mystery as he seeks self knowledge and to finally know his mother before it is to late. The story of his mother's illness could serve as a support group experience for others suffering the trama of a loved one's Alzheimer's dispair. Her experiences almost serve as a checklist for the Alzheimer's experience. Mr. Dodge teaches us that we are always "coming of age." It is a deeply moving book; it is full of beauty, caring, humor and insight.

This is a great book.

This is the only book that I have ever read that made me want to finish it.