"How much of each relationship is based on reality versus what we hope to believe about who the other is?" (Maggie Walther). While Maggie Walther is a fictional character in Richard Paul Evans's lovely book, The Noel Stranger, I am not a fictional character. How I wished I would have asked myself this question, among others, many years ago. How do you determine if you should stay in a relationship with someone? How can you live with someone...