Married for Better, Not Worse: The Fourteen Secrets to a Happy Marriage

by Joy Saunders Lundberg and Gary B. Lundberg

Book Overview

Nearly every couple has some degree of difficulty in their marriage. Most are resigned to it, but Gary and Joy Lundberg believe there is a solution. Drawing on their extensive experience with marriage counseling and workshops, the Lundbergs reveal fourteen secrets every spouse should know. These secrets cover everything from finances and parenting to communication and sex, from being each other's best friend to keeping a sense of humor, and the surprising...

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0142000876
• ISBN13: 9780142000878
• Release Date: May 2002
• Publisher: Penguin Group
• Length: 320 Pages
• Weight: 0.50 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.6" x 5.3" x 7.7"

Customer Reviews

Great resource for Couples

The Lundbergs first book, "I Don't Have To Make Everything All Better" has been a great resource to me as church counselor. When ths new book came out, I purchased it without hesitation. It is written in the same easy to read and common sense approach. The chapter on improving communication reminds the reader the importance of validation and teaches this important skill. The chapter on sexual intimacy is very direct and to the point. Other chapters address specific tasks and exercises to help restore romance and nurture each other. It is well researched and carefully integrates important material and ideas from many other articles.There are countless books out there on this subject. The real test is if it has the capacity and content to help troubled couples make permanent and lasting changes in their relationship. I have already used this book several times in counseling settings with members of my congregation, all with very positive feedback and results. It has become my book of choice when couples ask for reading material to help solve conflict or enhance their marriage.

Great Couples Resource

The Lundberg's book "I Don't Have to Make Everything All Better" has been a great resource to me as a church leader and counselor. When their new book "Married for Better, Not Worse" was released I bought it without hesitation. It is well researched and they have carefully integrated their own ideas with concepts and articles from many others. The real test of any book is if it can help stimulate a positive lasting and permanent change in behavior and understanding. In order for that to happen it must be easy to read, offer hope that conflict relief is achievable, and contain common sense solutions to everyday problems. Although there are many books available on this popular subject, it has become my book of choice when counseling couples in trouble. I have already witnessed some very positive results with its use.

Secrets No Longer

I was having problems in my marriage and a friend recommend The RoMANtic's Guide and this book. I read them both and it was as though a light bulb was turned on in my head. I finally began to understand why my marriage wasnt better, even though my wife and I try.Thanks.