Love Unending: Rediscovering Your Marriage in the Midst of Motherhood

by Becky Thompson and Becky Thompson

Book Overview

ECPA BESTSELLER - How can I remember how to be a wife when it takes all I've got to be a momma?

Since becoming a mom, do you ever feel like your marriage no longer receives the attention it needs to thrive? Do you ever wonder how you're supposed to re-center your heart on your husband when you are so busy with everything else?

Those feelings we experienced in the first days of love and marriage often become buried beneath...

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1601428103
• ISBN13: 9781601428103
• Release Date: January 2017
• Publisher: Waterbrook Press
• Length: 224 Pages
• Weight: 0.40 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.6" x 5.3" x 7.9"

Customer Reviews

It Changed My Marriage! A Must-Read!

Becky Thompson is one of my favourite authors. Her first book, Hope Unfolding, was beautifully written and easy to read, like I was sitting down to coffee with an old friend. Her latest book, Love Unending, is written in the same friendly voice, but is presented in a completely different format; it's designed as a 21 day challenge (with one chapter per day) to help us busy mommas rekindle the romance in our marriages. Each chapter introduces one practical step that we can take to enhance our relationship with our husbands, encouraging us to take that step over the course of the day. Then, at the end of the day, we can write and reflect about how things are going. I received an advanced reading copy of this book (in exchange for my honest review) and was eager to dive right into the challenge. With each passing day, I began to notice positive changes in my marriage and in our home. This will definitely be a book I'll read over and over again because it's a great reminder to be intentional with my husband in the midst of life's busyness. Regardless of whether your marriage is struggling or is better than it's ever been, I would encourage you to read this book. Becky's honesty about her own marriage and the practical advice that she offers have already made a lasting impact on hearts, lives and marriages everywhere.

A Game Changer for your Marriage!

After a difficult pregnancy and with a toddler and brand new baby at home, my husband's job layoff my husband and I were disconnected to say the least. I felt it would take a miracle to get us back on track, the task felt so daunting! That miracle came with Thompson's book, Love Unending - a practical 21 day, prayer-filled challenge for wives. There are other books like this, as well, but this one was different - it catered to the mama's heart, addressed issues that are specific to marriage with kids and babies. What a SUCCESS! It saved us before things continued on a downward spiral. Thank you, Becky, for your wonderful work! I will continue doing these challenges until the end of my days and will recommend this book to every mother and wife I know!

Great for any season of marriage

The stresses and hectic life that come along with motherhood often cause a strain in marriages. Fortunately my husband and I have a pretty healthy marriage, but- marriage takes work. Becky does a fantastic job helping readers (moms and wives- young and old) take a step back and realize just why we fell in love with our husbands in the beginning. This 21-day process helped me see the areas of my marriage I had become comfortable in, the areas I needed to work on, and the areas I had completely neglected. At the end of each chapter (challenge), there is space to journal and reflect. At the end of the 21 day process, it was so neat to go back and read my thoughts and reflections from the beginning. Fantastic book! Loved it. I cannot wait to share it with more women!

To The Married Momma:

Maybe you have a great relationship with your husband, maybe you’re traveling on a rocky road and need a friend to hold your hand and help you out, or maybe you have a failing marriage and are grasping for straws right now. No matter where you are, momma, friend, Love Unending has something for you. The second book from Becky Thompson is an simple, yet fulfilling challenge that will gently guide you back day-by-day to the reasons you first fell for your husband. Love Unending is a marriage changer. It’s encouraging, revitalizing and exciting. If you’re willing to fight for your marriage, to better your marriage, or simply update your marriage, get your hands on this! It will be the most rewarding twenty-one days of the year!

A healthy reminder that before I was mommy, I was Mrs.

I walked right up to my husband, wrapped my arms around his neck, gave him a kiss, and then pulled him in to a warm hug. "What was that for?" He asked, smiling. "I just realized I have the marriage of my dreams, that's all." This is what has culminated after 15 days of reading Becky Thompson of @scissortail silk's new book-- "Love Unending: Rediscovering your marriage in the midst of motherhood." Don't get me wrong. We weren't in marriage turmoil or crisis before. Neither of us would have said we were unhappy. But we were living more like really friendly roommates than two people deep in love and sharing a covenant with each other and God. Somewhere between the bills and the spills we had become routinely unromantic. Kids will do that to you. ❤️ This book was a practical, biblical, and thought provoking reminder of how precious marriage is and where to start rebuilding when it gets off track. I have a hunch this could not only improve complacent relationships, but also resurrect desperate ones. I highly recommend it.

Just what I needed

Love Unending was just the book I was looking for to help me refocus. I became a mom six months ago. It has been the most rewarding yet difficult and challenging jobs I have had. In addition to mom, I also juggle the hat of a teacher. Working full time, raising our son and trying to be the best wife I can be is hard. But Becky’s book gives practical ways to help keep my marriage a priority in the midst of the every day craziness. Each day you read a story from her life, are given a new challenge to strengthen your relationship with your husband, have time for predicting how your husband will react and then a reflection time. Each chapter is manageable to read in a short amount of time. I hope you find the book as helpful as I have! I can’t wait to reread it.

best marriage book ever written

I thought I was a good wife. I had read a few books. This book has every tip I have ever needed. It's encouraging me to be an amazing wife and to pray for my husband and it is changing our home. Our children are witnessing parents that are kind to each other and greet each other and touch.

This is a must read! I love and appreciate Becky's insight, encouragedment, and challenges. This book has helped me refocus my marriage and work on my attitude. I don't understand why we treat the ones closest to us the worst. This book has helped me focus on treating my husband with respect and love the way I did when we first fell in love. This book is great for both believers and non-believers. It would make a great gift or Bible study!

I loved this book!

If you are balancing being a mother and a wife this is the book for you! A 21 day journey that reminds why you fell in love in the first place! Must read!

You won't regret this purchase!

Love Unending by Becky Thompson is a phenomenal book! Even if you feel your marriage is doing great, I think there is always room for more love and improvement. To be honest, I am not a reader but I love the short applicable chapters that I can so easily relate to and that truly engage me. I love the scripture passages & daily challenges that are tied into each chapter and how we can apply them to our daily lives & marriages. It has been so neat to see what transformations have taken place in our marriage & I look forward to seeing what God has in store for our future!

A must read!

I didn't read this book because my marriage was in jeopardy. The reason I read this book was because I wanted to invest in my relationship with my husband. My pastor often says when talking about marriage that the grass isn't greener on the other side- it is greener where you water it. So true! With two kids now, I have found myself investing a lot of my time and energy into them but not as much in my husband. And, to be honest when the kids go to college I don't want us to be strangers. Through this book I was able to reposition my heart and my attitude in my daily interactions with my husband so that we can face life like we did when we first met, full of love and excitement. No matter where your marriage is, you should read this book.

A must have!

The subtitle (rediscovering your marriage in the midst of motherhood) perfectly describes the book. This book is perfect for all marriages to help get you back to a place your marriage was before kids, to help rediscover the love you once had before kids. It completely changed my heart and way of thinking about my marriage for the best. I think every momma needs this book!

Life changing

This book is currently changing my marriage! It has awakened and rejuvenated my marriage. It teaches you how to be intentional within your marriage daily and reminds you to take it back to the beginning.

Hope for marriages!

Mommas need hope, and that's what Hope Unfolding was all about. What Becky has done in Love Unending is to offer moms hope for their marriages, something we all need---in the craziness of motherhood---there is hope for the future of our marriages! Love Unending is already changing the temperature in my marriage... And making me a better mom and wife at the same time! I can't get enough of Becky's open, honest sharing of what God has put on her heart in this book. It's life-changing!!!!

You Must Buy This Book!

This is hands-down the best marriage book I've read! If you're struggling in your marriage because being a mom seems to occupy all of your time and energy, this book is for you! It has changed me and changed my marriage. The chapters/challenges are short and easy to complete. And the book has great journaling questions and reflections at the end of each challenge. Becky Thompson graciously and genuinely imparts wisdom and encouragement and very practical steps to take to help rediscover your marriage amidst mothering!

A Universal Truth for ALL Marriages!

I wasn't sure what to expect when I started Love Unending. I had a strong marriage with a solid foundation. What I've found is that Becky's words aren't just for one specific type of marriage. It's not just for those marriages that need a friendly reminder or for those hanging on by a thread. It is hands down a universal truth for ALL marriages. Good or bad. Strong or weak. Happy or unhappy and anything and everything in between. Her words are incredibly powerful. This truth will change your heart and your home!

Amazing book!

Every momma should read this book! Not only is it completely eye opening in heart issue that we throw to the wayside while caring for our children, it gives practical ways to reconnect with your husband again. God truly will transform you and your marriage!

Love this!

This book is truly changing my marriage! I highly recommend this for all married women, young or old. Buy this book! You won't be sorry!

This book will strengthen every marriage!

What A Transformation Love Unending Has Done In My Marriage!

Wow! I can not say enough great words about this book! It is a must read for any mama and wife. Becky really knows how to speak to the heart of so many ladies. The challenges are wonderful and laid out perfectly. I have seen a huge transformation in my marriage and my husband and I are communicating much better and my eyes have been opened to so much because of Love Unending. I highly recommend this book! You will NOT regret it!! :)

A Practical Heart-Changing Guidebook.

Marriage changes when kids come along. This is a brilliant and practical book for every mum wanting to invest in her marriage. I loved working through the daily challenges and have noticed my heart soften and tune in to my husband like it was in the beginning before kids. This has had a positive impact on, not only my marriage, but also, my interactions with my kids and the atmosphere of my home.

Challenging and down-to-earth ways to help grow your marriage!

This book is a powerful tool for any wife who is also a momma! (Honestly it's good for any married woman, but Becky targets it to moms.) It's a 21 day challenge for married moms to rediscover the passion, servant's heart and prayerful attitude that we had early on in our marriages (or even relationship before marriage). These challenges have made me examine my heart in a new way and has begun a new heart attitude in me. I'm thankful to be able to build a strong foundation on my marriage (even 5 years in) to stand on for years and decades to come.

This book is amazing! Becky speaks from the heart and is so easy to relate to. This book is an easy read and can transform your marriage if you're willing to allow it!

An Excellent Challenge for Every Mom/Wife

After being married for 8 years and having 3 children, my husband does not get the attention that he once had when we first fell in love. This 21-day challenge has made me realize how important it is to still make my husband a priority and it has really opened my heart on how I can best love him. I know this book will be so helpful for other women who have struggled with balancing being a mom and wife!

Must read for every MOM who is ALSO A WIFE!!

Marriage is hard. Marriage with kids is even harder. In this book, Becky uses personal stories and practical guidance to help you rebuild the relationship you had with your husband before there were children. This book is a must read for all married mommas out there. Is it a difficult challenge? ABSOLUTELY! But is it worth it? 100%!

Great read for any mom/wife or one to be!

As the step mom of a 3 year old, and someone who is currently pregnant, sometimes we let our marriages fall to the way side. We put so much focus into our kids that we forget our marriages require just as much work. In Love Unending, Becky provides great steps to getting your marriage back to where it was when you were a newlywed. At first I was hesitant, but even in the smallest challenges, the one's where you kind of think "Is this really necessary?" had a big impact. I can already see my marriage improving. Sometimes it takes just as many small steps as it does big ones, to re-ignite the love that is there. I recommend anyone who is a mom/wife or becoming one, to read this book and really challenge themselves and see just how much it really does change your marriage for the better!

Don't miss this gem!

You don't want to miss this gem that is easy to read & apply to your own marriage. Love Unending is filled with personal stories that grab your attention and help you feel that you can be a great wife even as daily life is swirling around you. Becky writes from her experience and everyday life as she gives her readers easy to adapt 'challenges'. During the 21-day challenge, you are motivated to love well through tangible ways like: greet lovingly, speak kindly or listen intently while being encouraged to a process of heart transformation in yourself. The spaces to journal each day give you a visual of how things are changing and holds you accountable to checking in on how the process is going on a daily basis. Love this book and the change it has encouraged in my own marriage & heart!

This is a MUST for every wife and momma out there! Pursuing your husband while being a mom is so hard but Becky Thompson's book is perfect way to find your way back to being HIS WIFE above all.

Must Read for Wives/Moms!

This is not just your average marriage book. This book is written specifically for wives that are moms. It is a book about how to balance being a great wife, all the while being a great mom. Before kids, our husbands had all of our attention. Now, after kid(s) they get only a fraction of our attention. This book helps you discover how to have a more equal balance, and how to give your husband more of the love and attention like you did when you first fell in love.

Heart Changing!

Sooooo good! This book is eye opening to me on so many levels. It is changing me and making me see there are so many things that I can work on daily to improve my marriage. My heart is in a new place and my mindset has become more intentional in showing my husband how much I love him. Love Unending is challenging in a great way!!!

Best book for marriage out there!!

This book is INCREDIBLE!! It has completely changed my life and my marriage and I would highly recommend it! This book is full of practical advice and simple changes you can make that will radically impact the relationship with your husband. Way more value than what you'll spend purchasing the book!

Best Book for wives & moms ever!

Never been a better book! Easy reading, practical, and so encouraging. My marriage will never be the same!

Must-Read for Wives

This book is such a game changer for marriages! You may not even realize how much your marriage can improve until you walk through the 21 days of this book.