"As you begin to reach "old age", whatever that's supposed to mean, you begin to think about what to leave your children. Certainly money, if you're lucky enough to accumulate some wealth and manage not to outlast it, and possessions that you think somone just might find worth keeping. But those are tangible things. The greatest gift is a feeling of belonging, of roots, and of having had a loving family. In finishing Mom's project, I am the recipient...