Learning from the Heart: Lessons on Living, Loving, and Listening

by Daniel Gottlieb

Book Overview

In his bestselling Letters to Sam, Gottlieb poignantly addressed his autistic grandson. In this wise and wonderful follow-up, he opens his heart to share his insights and breathtaking compassion with the readers.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1402749996
• ISBN13: 9781402749995
• Release Date: March 2008
• Publisher: Sterling
• Length: 170 Pages
• Weight: 0.78 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.8" x 5.8" x 8.3"

Customer Reviews

Thank you, Dan Gottlieb!

Wow, what a moving and beautifully written book! Recommended for anyone living with a chronic illness or condition, and their caretakers. A perfect book to share and re-read. Loved it!

You'll be hooked by the time you read the cover!

Daniel Gottlieb's LETTERS TO SAM was one of the best books that I've read over the past few years . . . so when I saw that the author came out with something new, LEARNING FROM THE HEART, I rushed to get hold of it. And was I ever glad that I did . . . I was hooked after just seeing the cover and the subtitle: LESSONS ON LIVING, LOVING AND LISTENING . . . Gottlieb, a practicing psychologist, presents this information via short essays on a wide variety of topics . . . best of all, he brings in his own personal experiences and openly shares them. I especially liked his view about not always having to be best in everything: * I've ended up feeling a great deal of gratitude for my failures. Of course, there are people who don't believe me when I tell them I belong in the last seat in the second row. They challenge my position by reminding me of books I have written and the many wonderful accomplishments I've been fortunate to achieve. Over the years I have learned that there are some aspects of my humanity--perhaps my kindness and my ability to understand others--that probably belong in the first row. But there are many other aspects of Gottlieb that belong in the last row--technical skills, attention span, and memory (to name a few). Gottlieb also got me thinking about how good life can be--and is--when he related this account of a friend's visit: * I do believe in coincidence, and I was involved in a quite a fortunate one when my friend Amy came over to visit just two days before that phone call. At one point, she asked if I believed in heaven. Without giving it any thought, I said, "Yes. You're in it right now." I saw the dazed look on her face that I often see when I make proclamations, so I went on: "What were the chances of that sperm fertilizing that egg and producing your life? And what were the chances that you would have lived all the years you have lived in relative good health? And what were the odds that you would have so many people in your life whom you love and who care about you? And what were the possibilities that you could look out of almost any window and see the beauty of nature? Heaven? You bet." Of course, my version of heaven is not the perfect one we read about in mythology or that many believe in. There is great pain and suffering and loss in this particular heaven. But deep inside, most know it-heaven, life-is precious. It just takes some careful noticing. Lastly, the author had me laughing when I read passages such as this one: * Even trauma like my accident carries good news and bad news. I suffer, still get frustrated and sometimes depressed, and yet there is good news about being a quadriplegic. The good news about being quadriplegic? Well, first, there is the obvious--great parking spaces. Then, think shoes. I don't have to spend a fortune on comfortable shoes, and they last as long as I want them to. But the great news about quadriplegic is that I don't have to get up to pee in

Lessons in Being Where You Are

This is an enlightening book by a talented writer who touched my heart in his story about what it means to be human. Like all people this author has suffered, but through his many roles, experiences, losses, and observation of the human condition he has discovered truth and is able to communicate his message in a clear and concise manner. The book discusses living in the moment, accepting what we are experiencing and how we are feeling because life after all is temporary. He tells us about his daughter's 3 legged dog and the lessons we can learn from it. The dog does not consider itself as having special needs. It just behaves like a dog and lives with the assets it has. Acceptance of ourselves just as we are will make us "feel more alive, loving, and compassionate...without categorizing our life events as good or bad, easy or difficult." In this story Daniel Gottlieb tells us about his experiences as a Therapist, divorcee, quadriplegic, husband of a young cancer victim and father of children dealing with parental medical catastrophes. He coped with the death of his ex-wife and his parents and communicating with his autistic grandchild, as well as, his clients. He learned that what he really wanted was to stop wanting to be or have something that was not possible for him. In spite of his experiences he found peace in his life and helped countless others do the same. I am impressed with this this author, his book and the fact that he is donating all of his royalties from it to children's health organizations and charities. Reading this book I felt the range of human emotions and have a much better understanding of what it really means to be human from a person with a much different perspective than I have experienced. I recommend this book to people of all ages and walks of life. You will be glad you read it and will gain a new perspective of life.

What Does it Mean to be Human?

Daniel Gottlieb is one of the most compassionate souls I have ever "met." A trained psychologist, Gottlieb was in an accident in 1979 when he was 33 years old and was rendered a quadriplegic. Shortly following his accident, he "began to wonder what it really meant to be human." What follows are stories and what he learns about himself, friends, family and patients. Gottlieb began to study how humans (and pets) acted and reacted; their emotions, thoughts and feelings. He discovered that emotions are contagious. He writes that we ask ourselves: "Who am I?" "Who am I supposed to be?" "Who should I be?" "How do we find our identity in a world that insists your identity is defined by your achievements, by your beauty, by your power, by your youth?" Gottlieb implores us to slow down and actually hear and see others and ourselves. He believes as we do more, we hear less--less of what other people are saying and our own voice. The love Gottlieb feels for humanity is palpable in "Loving from the Heart." He explains that his body, almost 30 years after the accident, is starting to disease and that death could come at any time. But, he is without pity. Instead, his compassion for the human race is so strong and true that I found myself sobbing several times throughout the book. He talks about our "national anxiety disorder" and offers advice for finding relief. I loved this: "We are not important as individuals. And everything we say and do counts." Meditate on that one! This book is a treasure. By the author of the award winning book, Harmonious Environment: Beautify, Detoxify and Energize Your Life, Your Home and Your Planet.

Clone this man

Mr. Gottlieb writes what we feel but can't always express...his honesty about himself and his humanness are to be commended and his solutions to lifes injustices are wise and insightful!!! Clone this man and then spread him around the world...