Just Let the Kids Play: How to Stop Other Adults from Ruining Your Child's Fun and Success in Youth Sports

by Linda Hall, Bob Bigelow, Tom Moroney, et al.

"Bob's message is a must for all parents and coaches. He challenges adults to understand their effect on youngsters, and that kids' needs have to be met first." Bob Trupin, Westport, CT This is not... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1558749276
• ISBN13: 9781558749276
• Release Date: August 2001
• Publisher: Health Communications
• Length: 320 Pages
• Weight: 1.90 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.8" x 5.6" x 8.5"

Customer Reviews

Right on The Mark!!!!!!

I read this book quite a while ago and found myself nodding in agreement throughout the book. Finally someone who "gets it" THANK YOU!!...My younger son has been on travel teams (elite teams) since the age of 7..He is now almost 14..I have sat through hundreds of game,driven countless miles in an SUV to games that were as far away as 2 1/2 hours.. watched my son receive 40 thorphies,..seen practices where I was sure they must be training college players not 8 year olds.. seen coaches kicked out of a game by referees for bad behavior, seen parents behave in ways that I could never imagine...and I see children that are becoming "entitled" through youth sports...This book is right on the money...I feel sad for our youth...and I hope that this book begins to have people qeustion youth sports and begin to offer some balance in youth sports...We have lost a lot when we lost -->pick up games, sandlot games..etc-children coming together to play sports that was not adult driven...

Disagree with the Last Reviewer

Wow, I'm not sure you even read the book, if that's your take on it, Mr. Propaganda Junk. The book takes a broad,rather than narrow, view on sports, by gearing programs to all kids, not just the ones who happen to be talented and focused & quot;at any early age (have youever coached young kids - usually they are neither of these things). Bob is not suggesting that we sheild kids from competition and actually outlines a plan for introducing healthy competition. Remember, they are presently kids, NOT adults. Higher goals?? Whose?? Yours or your kids? Most kids I know like to play the game, but can't wait to go to Mickey D's after the game and be with their friends. A place for the higher levels - who defines this? The guys who coach (mostly guys I like to label as PERMANENT JV,based on their own athletic accomplishments), who coach only so their own kid make the team? Does this fit you? Guys like you should take a long look in the mirror and see of you should really be anywhere near youth sports.

A "must read" for parents and coaches of young children!

This is a well thought out book, loaded with insightful comments and solutions regarding the problems with youth sports today. I have coached youth sports for 9 years, and since day one, I have been very discouraged with the "system". This book puts sports in it's proper perspective - it's not at all about "winning". I would encourage anyone who is even remotely involved with youth sports to read this book - it will wake you up and give you lots of food for thought!

Make every parent in your sports league read this book!

Pompano Beach has it right - this is the best youth sportsbook out there - by far (how about 6 stars?)Before you let your kid play "travel" anything - read this book.Before you let your kid play for a coach who "plays to win" -read this book.If your kid plays several sports at once - read this book.If you have ever screamed at a youth sports official - read this book.Wondering about whether to cut kids or not in your program -read this book.

Read This Parents and Coaches!!!

This is hands-down the best book I've read about ensuring your child gets the most out of youth sports. Parents spend a lot of time and money to have their kids participate in sports--this book will make sure that the sports are helping the kids, not hurting them. Many weekends I've watched well-intentioned, normally mild-mannered adults become raving lunatics as soon as the ball is in play and they watch their kids' play. This book gives parents and coaches practical ways to prevent this kind of behavior from happening. Whether your child is a star player on a well-run team, or a bench-warmer on a poorly run team, this book will show you what you can do in big and small ways to improve what your child gets out of sports. The columns by Tom Moroney are hilarious, mostly because they're true--you will recognize yourself or someone you know in this book. It's informative and very entertaining reading!!!