Many of us walk through life with a perspective of comparison. We say, "If only I could be as pretty, as wealthy, as funny, or as smart as someone else," each time suggesting that if things were a little different, life would be much better. This trap keeps us confined in a mental and emotional state of lack. Instead of asking, "Why can't things be different?" why not ask, "What can I learn from this? How can I be better right where I am and by being...