Is It You or Is It Me?: How We Turn Our Emotions Inside Out and Blame Each Other

by Diane Cole and Scott Wetzler

Book Overview

In this provocative new look at romantic relationships, psychologist Scott Wetzler explores the widespread phenomenon of misplaced anger that seems to define couple dynamics in the 1990s. He finds a wary, secretive, and combative atmosphere clouding relationships. Partners are feeling hurt and bruised by the very people with whom they are most vulnerable. In desperation and puzzlement, they are asking, "Who's at fault here? Is It You or Is It Me?...

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0060187433
• ISBN13: 9780060187439
• Release Date: May 1998
• Publisher: Harper
• Length: 288 Pages
• Weight: 1.10 lbs.
• Dimensions: 1.0" x 5.5" x 8.3"

Customer Reviews

it's outstanding

I considered sending the authors a check, since this book has already been worth a half-dozen therapy sessions, and I'm not even finished. It's written clearly & intelligently. If everybody read this book with the loving care with which it's written, I think the world would be a saner place.

Concrete information for troubled relationships!

This is one of the best books I have ever read on what is really happening within a relationship between two people. This book gets to the point on how individual's think and how that thinking causes confusion and relationship problems. Many books like this are nice to read and then you close the book and that's it. This one is different. I would recommend this to those who have a pattern of relationship problems or those who know there is a problem in your current relationship, but just can't figure out what the problem is! My fiance is reading this and we're learning a lot about each other! This one is so interesting and easy to read, I couldn't put it down until I was finished. A keeper!