When you are in a family with many successful marriages all around you, how do you know if you are the only one living with a porn addict? Do you simply ask, or do you remember your vows till death do us part and keep quiet? His secret became ours and before I knew it, we were more than two decades into a marriage under seize by a porn addiction. Like a fly trapped in a spider's web, he was totally under the control of pornography and held captive...