I was six years old when I first heard "the voice". It wasn't an audible voice; more like a feeling. There was an older woman in my church who had never been married. I wondered to myself, why? That's when the voice spoke clearly to me: "That's going to be you. Nobody is ever going to want to marry you." That voice created a fear in me that day that caused me to spend half my life manufacturing relationships that weren't right for me out of fear of...