You got her to say "I do", so why now is there a struggle to get her to say anything other than "not tonight honey"? The unfortunate reality is that at a certain point in marriage a lot of men are seeing an unhappy decline in their sexual activity. Trying to understand what your wife needs in order to solve this problem starts to feel like mission impossible, and this just leads to both the man and woman feeling unsatisfied and unfulfilled in their...