Ugh Another book on marriage? There are a ton of books on getting married, recovering from trauma, spicing up your marriage, and so on. Many of them are littered with suggestions like "Hand your husband a cold drink and his slippers when he walks in the door." Pshaw Like that's going to happen. I'm an independent, educated, working mom. Not in my house. But I have come to learn a thing or two about how to keep myself sane and my husband relatively...