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ISBN: 006091565X

ISBN13: 9780060915650

The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships

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Book Overview

The renowned classic and New York Times bestseller that has transformed the lives of millions of readers, dramatically changing how women and men view relationships. Anger is something we feel. It exists for a reason and always deserves our respect and attention. We all have a right to everything we feel--and certainly our anger is no exception.Anger is a signal and one worth listening to, writes Dr. Harriet Lerner in her renowned classic that has transformed the lives of millions of readers. While anger deserves our attention and respect, women still learn to silence our anger, to deny it entirely, or to vent it in a way that leaves us feeling helpless and powerless. In this engaging and eminently wise book, Dr. Lerner teaches both women and men to identify the true sources of anger and to use it as a powerful vehicle for creating lasting change.For decades, this book has helped millions of readers learn how to turn their anger into a constructive force for reshaping their lives. With a new introduction by the author, The Dance of Anger is ready to lead the next generation. This description may be from another edition of this product.
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Customer Reviews

14 customer ratings | 5 reviews

Rated 4 stars
Great Book

This was a great read that teaches how to implement different techniques in your life and manage your anger. It offers great advice as well as personal accounts. I learned things from this book that have helped me in my everyday life.

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Rated 5 stars
Nuanced look at anger in relationships

I was skeptical about this book and probably wouldn’t have bought it if not for the recommendation of a friend. It has already had an impact on my relationships with the people around me and my relationship to anger in meaningful ways and I only finished it yesterday. It’s billed as a book for people socialized female, but I would recommend to anyone of any gender. A helpful look at how anger manifests and how our patterns...

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Rated 4 stars
Still helpful - second time around

I read this book about 10 years ago and have been recommending it since. Recently, in speaking with a friend who is doing the dance with another, I decided to order the book again for myself. The book was as vibrant and helpful the second time around and because I am a different person with different issues, I was able to receive the information from a new place. Don't think you have to be angry with a capital A, to get...

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Rated 5 stars
I Wish I'd Read This Earlier

I was truly able to relate to the family situations and common anger responses discussed in this book. I soon came to realize how I have been mishandling my anger for most, if not all, of my adult life. The author discusses our need to discontinue those anger responses that haven't been working for us thus far in particular situations and to step back and assess the true reasons for our anger. She then helps us think through...

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Rated 5 stars
Wow !

Many years ago someone recommended that I read this book but I didn't bother. I thought "Yeah right, another self-help book. I don't think so!" I was so wrong. This book dares to take on that ugly, taboo emotion: ANGER! If you never learned good solutions for understanding and dealing with your anger, this is a book you need to read. It is filled with insight about anger. It also offers constructive solutions for getting rid...

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