Give Me a Moment and I'll Change Your Life: Tools for Moment Management

by Alan Lakein

Book Overview

Encourages readers to pay attention to moments as they come along, identify moments that bring quality to life, and make the most of every moment. This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0836235916
• ISBN13: 9780836235913
• Release Date: January 1997
• Publisher: Andrews McMeel Publishing
• Length: 97 Pages
• Weight: 0.52 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.6" x 5.3" x 7.8"

Customer Reviews

Short but memorable!

Alan Lakein wrote, HOW TO GET CONTROL OF YOUR TIME AND YOUR LIFE . . . if you haven't yet read that masterpiece, do so at your earliest convenience . . . it is still as timely as when he wrote it back in 1973. I would have liked to have read something else by Lakein, but had never been able to find anything . . . so imagine my surprise when I came across what appears to be his follow-up effort, GIVE ME A MOMENT AND I'LL CHANGE YOUR LIFE. The above is certainly one of the shortest books I have ever come across . . . it is only 97 pages with a lot of those blank . . . there's also much white space, and thesize is a mere 5 x 8 inches . . . furthermore, much of the material is taken from HOW TO GET CONTROL; e.g., his classic ten-word guide for clarifying purpose simply and directly: 1. List possibilities2. Set A-B-C priorities3. Do the A-1 priority now! And then there's this other bit of advice that I often revisit: Still not acting? Take a moment and ask Lakein's Question: "What's the best use of your time right now?" Take your first answer as you're A-1. Then do it now! However, despite these negatives, I still liked GIVE ME A MOMENT--and got a surprising lot out of it. Perhaps most significantly, I got Lakein's premise that "every moment is an opportunity" and "one moment can change your life." I also liked his ideas on how to make the moment yours and be happier right now, how to enhance your moments at work and play, and how to cultivate more quality moments. There were several other memorable passages; among them: Compliment people if you like what they're wearing. You derive triple pleasure form noticing what you like, sharing your appreciation, and observing their reaction. If your problem isn't cumulative stress but momentary annoyance, adding a plus can remedy the situation. Say you have to make a last-minute trip to the store for a bottle of salad dressing. Instead of resenting the time spent, make the errand a relaxing transition from a hard day at work to a nice evening at home. Anticipate the pleasure of the next few hours with your dinner date. Or figure out how you're going to clean the living room in five minutes or less when you get back. It tuition can help you act, indecision can hamper you. The cure is action. Instead of wasting time because you're unable to choose between two possible ways of proceeding, toss a coin. If you find yourself hoping for a certain result, you've discovered what you really want to do. Otherwise, do what the coin dictates. Once you've started you'll know whether to keep going . . . or take a new direction. It's easier to make a course correction if you're already moving.

A gem from wise guy Lakein

Is there anyone happier than Lakein on this Earth? :-)Have read both his books many times over and am fascinated by the writings as well as the author. Great style of writing and great wisdom. Practicing the wisdom in this book requires elimination of procrastination and the ability to focus on present all the time.I would give anything to become like him!