You need to find your Fire. "Will you not be with me?"...
Find the one who changes how you see the world.
Your fire will be special to you, and a feeling like no other will radiate within into you.
Form a bond with your Fire.
Do what you need to in order to form that bond. This step is very important.
Lastly, stay alive.
Trust your instincts, that feeling in your belly. It will tell you what to trust. WHO to trust.